Matthew 10:39
in Matthew 10Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for My sake will find it.
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He that findeth his life shall lose it; and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.
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He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.
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This verse in Matthew 10
Commentary
21 notes on this verse(Verse 38, 39.) And whoever does not take up their cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it. In another Gospel it is written: Whoever does not take up their cross daily. Let us not think that the ardor of faith can be enough once and for all, the cross must always be carried, so that we may always teach ourselves to love Christ.
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loveth father or mother more than me
on Matthew 10:37-39
He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me states the claim Christ makes on first loyalty in terms no ordinary teacher could use of himself without either arrogance or truth, and the bench reads it as one more quiet claim to deity threaded through an otherwise practical discourse. He that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me names an instrument of Roman execution before the crucifixion has happened, the image already familiar enough from the roads of occupied Judea that the disciples would have understood exactly what was meant. He that findeth his life shall lose it, and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it states the paradox at the center of discipleship, that self-preservation is the very thing that forfeits life, and self-surrender to Christ is the way that secures it.
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The Church Fathers5 voices
Here Jesus calls the departure of life from the body the "loss of life," speaking figuratively. "He who finds his life" refers to anyone who too highly values transitory existence and as it were sells it at a profit. He will face the hands of death when he is sent to unremittable punishment and death.
Here the stated doctrine and its meaning run along the same course. After he commands us to abandon everything that is most valuable in earthly life, he adds, "He who does not take up his cross and follow me is not worthy of me." This is because those who belong to Christ have crucified their bodies with their sinful practices and pleasures. We are unworthy of Christ if we do not take up our own cross, by which we suffer, die and are buried and resurrected together with him. Only by this pledge of faith in the Spirit will he triumph in new life in us."He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for my sake will find it." This obviously means that through the power of the Word and separation from our old vices, we will receive spiritual profit in death and a fine exacted against our life. Therefore we must accept death in the reformation of our life. We are to fashion our vicious selves on the model of our Lord's cross, and we are to cling to an open profession of glory, even against persecutors and with disregard of things present.
Thus the gain of life brings death, the loss of life brings salvation; for by the sacrifice of this short life we gain the reward of immortality.
The life in this place is not to be understood as the substance, (the soul,) but as this present state of being; and the sense is, He who findeth his life, i. e. this present life, he who so loves this light, its joys and pleasures, as to desire that he may always find them; he shall lose that which he wishes always to keep, and prepare his soul for eternal damnation. That is, he who in confession of My name in time of persecution despises this temporal world, its joys, and pleasures, shall find eternal salvation for his soul.
In the same manner, therefore, we maintain that the other announcements too refer to the condition of martyrdom. "He," says Jesus, "who will value his own life also more than me, is not worthy of me," -that is, he who will rather live by denying, than die by confessing, me; and "he who findeth his life shall lose it; but he who loseth it for my sake shall find it." Therefore indeed he finds it, who, in winning life, denies; but he who thinks that he wins it by denying, will lose it in hell. On the other hand, he who, through confessing, is killed, will lose it for the present, but is also about to find it unto everlasting life. In fine, governors themselves, when they urge men to deny, say, "Save your life; "and, "Do not lose your life." How would Christ speak, but in accordance with the treatment to which the Christian would be subjected?
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The Church Fathers2 voices
How shall we fashion to us friends from mammon, if we love it so much as not to put up with its loss? We shall perish together with the lost mammon. Why do we find here, where it is our business to lose? To exhibit impatience at all losses is the Gentiles' business, who give money the precedence perhaps over their soul; for so they do, when, in their cupidities of lucre, they encounter the gainful perils of commerce on the sea; when, for money's sake, even in the forum, there is nothing which damnation (itself) would fear which they hesitate to essay; when they hire themselves for sport and the camp; when, after the manner of wild beasts, they play the bandit along the highway. But us, according to the diversity by which we are distinguished from them, it becomes to lay down not our soul for money, but money for our soul, whether spontaneously in bestowing or patiently in losing.
A commentator
John ChrysostomHomily on the Gospel of Matthew 35 · Written in the 5th century.
proposed
"He that findeth his life," saith He, "shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake, shall find it." Seest thou how great the damage to such as love it unduly? how great the gain to them that hate it? I mean, because the injunctions were disagreeable, when He was bidding them set themselves against parents, and children, and nature, and kindred, and the world, and their very soul, He sets forth the profit also, being very great. Thus, "These things," saith He, "so far from harming, will very greatly profit; and their opposites will injure;" urging them, as He ever doth, by the very things which they desire. For why art thou willing to despise thy life? Because thou lovest it? Then for that very reason despise it, and so thou wilt advantage it in the highest degree, and do the part of one that loves it. And mark an instance of unspeakable consideration. For not in respect of our parents only doth He practise this reasoning, nor of our children, but with regard to our life, which is nearer than all; that the other point may thenceforth become unquestionable, and they may learn that they will in this way profit those of their kindred likewise, as much as may be; since so it is in the case even of our life, which is more essential to us than all.
The Medieval Church4 voices
A commentator
Bernard of ClairvauxSermons on the Song of Songs, Sermon 30 · Written before 1153.
proposed
Everyone who is perfect will be able to say: "My own vineyard I have not kept"; in that sense, indeed, in which the Savior speaks in the Gospel, "Whoever loses his soul for my sake will find it" (Mt 10:39). Fit indeed and worthy to …
Otherwise; He who seeks an immortal life, does not hesitate to lose his life, that is, to offer it to death. But either sense suits equally well with that which follows, And whoso shall lose his life for my sake shall find it.
"He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for My sake shall find it." He who pampers his life in the flesh appears to "find his life," while in fact he is losing it by sending it to eternal …
But they could say: What shall we get from all this? So he shows them the punishment for those who do not obey; hence he says, He who finds his life [soul] shall lose it. Soul is taken for life. When one is in danger …
The Puritans and the Awakening2 voices
He that findeth his life shall lose it,....
These things, though primarily intended for direction to the apostles, are of use to all Christ's ministers, with whom, by his word, Christ, and will be always to end the world.
The Nineteenth Century5 voices
A commentator
Albert Barnes1798–1870
Notes, Explanatory and Practical, on the Old and New Testaments (1832-1869)
He that findeth his life ... - The word “life” in this passage is used evidently in two senses. The meaning may be expressed thus: He that is anxious to save his “temporal” life, or his comfort and security here, shall lose “eternal” life, or shall fail of heaven. He that is willing to risk or lose his comfort and “life” here for my sake, shall find “life” everlasting, or shall be saved. The manner of speaking is similar to that where he said, “Let the dead bury their dead.” See notes at Mat 8:22.
In these verses the great head of the church winds up his first charge to those whom he sends forth to make known his Gospel. He declares three great truths, which form a fitting conclusion to the whole discourse. In the first place, he bids us remember that his Gospel will not cause peace and agreement wherever it comes.
A commentator
Jamieson, Fausset & Brown1802–1910
Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible (1871)
An entire sacrifice of the lower, with all its relationships and interests--or, a willingness to make it which is the same thing--is indispensable to the preservation of the higher life; and he who cannot bring himself to surrender the one for the sake of the other shall eventually lose both.
In these verses the great head of the church winds up his first charge to those whom he sends forth to make known his Gospel. He declares three great truths, which form a fitting conclusion to the whole discourse. In the first place, he bids us remember that his Gospel will not cause peace and agreement wherever it comes. “I came not to send peace, but a sword”The object of his first coming on earth was not to set up a millennial kingdom in which all would be of one mind, but to bring in the Gospel, which would lead to strifes and divisions. We have no right to be surprised if we see this continually fulfilled: we are not to think it strange if the Gospel rends sunder families and causes estrangement between the nearest relations. It is sure to do so in many cases, because of the deep corruption of man’s heart. So long as one man believes, and another remains unbelieving, so long as one is resolved to keep his sins, and another is desirous to give them up, the result of the preaching of the Gospel must needs be division. For this the Gospel is not to blame, but the heart of man. There is deep truth in all this, which is constantly forgotten and overlooked. Many talk vaguely about “unity,” “harmony” and “peace” in the church of Christ, as if they were things that we ought always to expect, and for the sake of which everything ought to be sacrificed! Such persons would do well to remember the words of our Lord. No doubt unity and peace are mighty blessings; we ought to seek them, pray for them and give up everything in order to obtain them, excepting truth and a good conscience. But it is an idle dream to suppose that the churches of Christ will enjoy much of unity and peace before the millennium comes. In the second place, our Lord tells us that true Christians must make up their minds to trouble in this world.
He that findeth his life, etc. - i.e. He who, for the sake of his temporal interest, abandons his spiritual concerns, shall lose his soul; and he who, in order to avoid martyrdom, abjures the pure religion of Christ, shall lose his soul, and perhaps his life too. He that findeth his life shall lose it, was literally fulfilled in Archbishop Cranmer. He confessed Christ against the devil, and his eldest son, the pope. He was ordered to be burnt; to save his life he recanted, and was, notwithstanding, burnt. Whatever a man sacrifices to God is never lost, for he finds it again in God. There is a fine piece on this subject in Juvenal, Sat. viii. l. 80, which deserves to be recorded here. - ambiguae si quando citabere testis Incertaeque rei, Phalaris liect imperet ut sis Falsus, et admoto dictet perjuria tauro, Summum crede nefas Animam praeferre Pudori Et propter Vitam Vivendi perdere causas - If ever call’d To give thy witness in a doubtful case, Though Phalaris himself should bid thee lie, On pain of torture in his flaming bull, Disdain to barter innocence for life; To which life owes its lustre and its worth Wakefield
Modern Voices1 voice
I cannot see any Battersea here; I cannot see any London or any England. I cannot see that door. I cannot see that chair: because a cloud of sleep and custom has come across my eyes. The only way to get back to them is …
The words behind it
17 Greek wordsEvery Greek word of this verse in the order it stands, with what it means and the door to its own study. The last column counts the times a word stands in the whole Bible: the rarer the word, the more the places it appears belong together.
| Greek | Sound | Meaning | Word study | In the Bible |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| ὁ | ho | The [one] | G3588 → | 19766 times |
| εὑρὼν | heuron | having found | G2147 → | 175 times |
| τὴν | ten | the | G3588 → | 19766 times |
| ψυχὴν | psuchen | life | G5590 → | 103 times |
| αὐτοῦ | autou | of him | G846 → | 5565 times |
| ἀπολέσει | apolesei | will lose | G622 → | 90 times |
| αὐτὴν | auten | it | G846 → | 5565 times |
| καὶ | kai | and | G2532 → | 9120 times |
| ὁ | ho | the [one] | G3588 → | 19766 times |
| ἀπολέσας | apolesas | having lost | G622 → | 90 times |
| τὴν | ten | the | G3588 → | 19766 times |
| ψυχὴν | psuchen | life | G5590 → | 103 times |
| αὐτοῦ | autou | of him | G846 → | 5565 times |
| ἕνεκεν | heneken | on account of | G1752 → | 26 times |
| ἐμοῦ | emou | Me | G1473 → | 839 times |
| εὑρήσει | heuresei | will find | G2147 → | 175 times |
| αὐτήν.¶ | auten | it. | G846 → | 5565 times |
ὁThe [one]
hoG3588 →19766 times
εὑρὼνhaving found
heuronG2147 →175 times
τὴνthe
tenG3588 →19766 times
ψυχὴνlife
psuchenG5590 →103 times
αὐτοῦof him
autouG846 →5565 times
ἀπολέσειwill lose
apoleseiG622 →90 times
αὐτὴνit
autenG846 →5565 times
καὶand
kaiG2532 →9120 times
ὁthe [one]
hoG3588 →19766 times
ἀπολέσαςhaving lost
apolesasG622 →90 times
τὴνthe
tenG3588 →19766 times
ψυχὴνlife
psuchenG5590 →103 times
αὐτοῦof him
autouG846 →5565 times
ἕνεκενon account of
henekenG1752 →26 times
ἐμοῦMe
emouG1473 →839 times
εὑρήσειwill find
heureseiG2147 →175 times
αὐτήν.¶it.
autenG846 →5565 times
A shaded row is a word that stands 400 times or fewer in the Bible.
The walk
8 stopsEach card is a verse this one points to, and under it the verses that one points to in turn. Where several paths arrive at the same place, that place is listed first: the text keeps returning to it.
Through
John 12:25Whoever loves his life will lose it, but whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.
it leads to
- Luke 17:33
Whoever tries to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life will preserve it.
Reached by 2 separate paths from here.
- Matthew 16:25
For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it.
Reached by 2 separate paths from here.
- Luke 9:23–24
Then Jesus said to all of them, “If anyone wants to come after Me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow Me.
- Mark 8:35
For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake and for the gospel will save it.
- Luke 14:26
“If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters—yes, even his own life—he cannot be My disciple.
- Luke 17:33
Through
Luke 9:24For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will save it.
it leads to
- John 12:25
Whoever loves his life will lose it, but whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.
Reached by 2 separate paths from here.
- Revelation 2:10
Do not fear what you are about to suffer. Look, the devil is about to throw some of you into prison to test you, and you will suffer tribulation for ten days. Be faithful…
Reached by 2 separate paths from here.
- Acts 20:23–24
I only know that in town after town the Holy Spirit warns me that chains and afflictions await me.
- John 12:25
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This page draws on Adam Clarke, Commentary on the Bible; Albert Barnes, Notes, Explanatory and Practical, on the Old and New Testaments (1832-1869); Bernard of Clairvaux, Sermons on the Song of Songs, Sermon 30; Cyril of Alexandria, FRAGMENT 128.34; GK Chesterton, Tremendous Trifles, XXXI. The Riddle of the Ivy (1909); Hilary of Poitiers, Commentary on Matthew 10.25-26; Hilary of Poitiers, Catena Aurea by Aquinas; J.C. Ryle, Expository Thoughts on the Gospels: Matthew; Jamieson, Fausset & Brown, Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible; Jerome, Commentary on Matthew; John Chrysostom, Homily on the Gospel of Matthew 35; John Gill, Exposition of the New Testament; John Gill, Exposition of the New Testament (1746-1748); Matthew Henry, Commentary on the Whole Bible; Rabanus Maurus, Catena Aurea by Aquinas; Remigius of Rheims, Catena Aurea by Aquinas; Tertullian, Scorpiace; Tertullian, Of Patience; Theophylact of Ohrid, Commentary on Matthew and Thomas Aquinas, Commentary on Matthew.
