Judges 13:23
in Judges 13But his wife replied, “If the LORD had intended to kill us, He would not have accepted the burnt offering and the grain offering from our hands, nor would He have shown us all these things or spoken to us this way.”
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ASV
But his wife said unto him, If Jehovah were pleased to kill us, he would not have received a burnt-offering and a meal-offering at our hand, neither would he have showed us all these things, nor would at this time have told such things as these.
KJV
But his wife said unto him, If the Lord were pleased to kill us, he would not have received a burnt offering and a meat offering at our hands, neither would he have shewed us all these things, nor would as at this time have told us such things as these.
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This verse in Judges 13
Commentary
11 notes on this verseThe first remark arising out of the story of Manoah and his wife is this—that oftentimes we pray for blessings which will make us tremble when we receive them. Manoah had asked that he might see the Angel and he saw Him—in answer to His request the Wonderful One condescended to reveal Himself a second time, but the consequence was that the good man was filled with astonishment and dismay. And turning to His wife, he exclaimed, "We shall surely die, because we have seen God."
This site's exposition
We are going to die
on Judges 13:22-23
The fear has texts behind it, since Exodus 33:20 says no one may see God and live, and Gideon is answered with peace at 6:22-23. Here his wife answers, reasoning that the LORD would not have “accepted the burnt offering and the grain offering” if He meant to kill them. She is never named in Scripture, and the plainest argument in the chapter is hers.
This site's exposition
accepted the burnt offering and the grain offering
Matthew Henry reads the fire that took the burnt offering and the grain offering as the sign the LORD had accepted it, a ransom for their lives. John Wesley adds that God had shown them these things in a time of oppression. Charles Spurgeon called it her excellent argument.
The record, by era
The Puritans and the Awakening4 voices
Nor would, &c. - This expression seems to have some emphasis in it, to enhance God's mercy to them, as being afforded them in a time of such grievous calamity; and in a time when the word of the Lord was precious; and there was no open vision.
Had he thought fit to kill us, (1.) He would not have accepted our sacrifice, and signified to us his acceptance of it by turning it to ashes, Ps. xx. The sacrifice was the ransom of our lives, and the fire fastening upon that was a plain indication of the turning away of his wrath from us. The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination, but you see ours is not so.
The great Redeemer did in a particular manner concern himself about this typical redeemer. Beware - Because the child was to be a Nazarite from the womb, ver. 5, and from the conception; and because the mother's pollution extends to the child, she is enjoined from this time to observe the following rules belonging to the Nazarites.
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But his wife said unto him,....
The Nineteenth Century1 voice
FAITH is not only the door by which we enter into the way of salvation, as it is written, "He has opened the door of faith unto the gentiles," but it likewise describes the entire path of Christian pilgrimage, "that we also walk in the steps of that faith." We are not only quickened by faith at the outset of our spiritual career, but we are supported and sustained thereby in all our subsequent experience—"the just shall live by faith."
3 more voices on this verse
The Nineteenth Century3 voices
FAITH is not only the door by which we enter into the way of salvation, as it is written, "He has opened the door of faith unto the gentiles," but it likewise describes the entire path of Christian pilgrimage, "that we also walk in the steps of that faith." We are not only quickened by faith at the outset of our spiritual career, but we are supported and sustained thereby in all our subsequent experience—"the just shall live by faith." As it is by faith that we come out from the world and begin to tread the heavenly road, so it must be by faith that we walk all the journey through. Till we lay down this veil of flesh, till the angel of death shall rend the curtain and we shall see him face to face, let us not hope to walk by sight or sense but only by faith in the living God. A life of faith is always very singular—often it seems very foolish to the carnal man. The man who acts by faith often acts imprudently in the eyes of the world. He appears unbusiness-like, because he observes not the maxims of his times, but holds fast by those statutes which God has given us for all time. Faith and patience often encourage a man to go the very way that caution and prudence would tell him not to go. And not infrequently, those who are weak in the faith will hold up their hands with astonishment, even if they do not speak with some degree of indignation, at the daring way in which the man strong in faith challenges the promises of God and acts as if he believed them to be quite as true as though they were already fulfilled. You know little, my Brothers and Sisters, of what it is to walk by faith, if you do not find it to be a way that you know not and a path which you have not seen. We saw the last step not until we had taken it, but the foundation on which faith is to put its foot for the next we cannot see. We do, as it were, tread on clouds and find them firm.
The first remark arising out of the story of Manoah and his wife is this—that oftentimes we pray for blessings which will make us tremble when we receive them. Manoah had asked that he might see the Angel and he saw Him—in answer to His request the Wonderful One condescended to reveal Himself a second time, but the consequence was that the good man was filled with astonishment and dismay. And turning to His wife, he exclaimed, "We shall surely die, because we have seen God." Brothers and Sisters, do we always know what we are asking for when we pray? We are imploring an undoubted blessing and yet if we knew the way in which such blessing must necessarily come, we would, perhaps, hesitate before we pressed our case. You have been entreating very much for growth in holiness. Do you know, Brother, that in almost every case, that means increased affliction? We do not make much progress in the Divine life except when the Lord is pleased to try us in the furnace and purge us with many fires. Do you desire the mercy on that condition? Are you willing to take it as God pleases to send it, and to say, "Lord, if spiritual growth implies trial. If it signifies a long sickness of body. If it means deep depression of soul. If it entails the loss of property. If it involves the taking away of my dearest friends, yet I make no reserve, but include in the prayer all that is necessary to the good end. When I say, sanctify me wholly, spirit, soul and body, I leave the process to Your discretion." Suppose you really knew all that it would bring upon you, would you not pray, at any rate, with more solemn tones? I hope you would not hesitate, but, counting all the cost, would still desire to be delivered from sin.
If the Lord were pleased to kill us, etc. - This is excellent reasoning, and may be of great use to every truly religious mind, in cloudy and dark dispensations of Divine Providence. It is not likely that God, who has preserved thee so long, borne with thee so long, and fed and supported thee all thy life long, girding thee when thou knewest him not, is less willing to save and provide for thee and thine now than he was when, probably, thou trustedst less in him.
The words behind it
21 Hebrew wordsEvery Hebrew word of this verse in the order it stands, with what it means and the door to its own study. The last column counts the times a word stands in the whole Bible: the rarer the word, the more the places it appears belong together.
| Hebrew | Sound | Meaning | Word study | In the Bible |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| וַתֹּ֧אמֶר | vatomer | and she said | H559 → | 5305 times |
| ל֣וֹ | lo | to <the> him | ||
| אִשְׁתּ֗וֹ | ʾishto | wife his | H802 → | 781 times |
| לוּ֩ | lu | if | H3863 → | |
| חָפֵ֨ץ | chafetz | he had desired | H2654 → | |
| יְהוָ֤ה | yahweh | Yahweh | H3068 → | 6520 times |
| לַהֲמִיתֵ֙נוּ֙ | lahamitenu | to kill us | H4191 → | 839 times |
| לֹֽא־ | lo'- | not | H3808 → | 5168 times |
| לָקַ֤ח | lakach | he accepted | H3947 → | 966 times |
| מִיָּדֵ֙נוּ֙ | miyadenu | from hand our | H3027 → | 1618 times |
| עֹלָ֣ה | ʾolah | a burnt offering | H5930 → | 287 times |
| וּמִנְחָ֔ה | uminchah | and a grain offering | H4503 → | 211 times |
| וְלֹ֥א | velo' | and not | H3808 → | 5168 times |
| הֶרְאָ֖נוּ | heranu | he showed us | H7200 → | 1300 times |
| אֶת־ | ʾet- | <obj.> | H853 → | 10935 times |
| כָּל־ | kol- | all | H3605 → | 5413 times |
| אֵ֑לֶּה | ʾeleh | these [things] | H428 → | 746 times |
| וְכָעֵ֕ת | vekhaet | and about <the> this time | H6256 → | 296 times |
| לֹ֥א | lo' | not | H3808 → | 5168 times |
| הִשְׁמִיעָ֖נוּ | hishmianu | he caused to hear us | H8085 → | 1159 times |
| כָּזֹֽאת׃ | kazot | like this | H2063 → | 603 times |
וַתֹּ֧אמֶרand she said
vatomerH559 →5305 times
ל֣וֹto <the> him
lo
אִשְׁתּ֗וֹwife his
ʾishtoH802 →781 times
לוּ֩if
luH3863 →
חָפֵ֨ץhe had desired
chafetzH2654 →
יְהוָ֤הYahweh
yahwehH3068 →6520 times
לַהֲמִיתֵ֙נוּ֙to kill us
lahamitenuH4191 →839 times
לֹֽא־not
lo'-H3808 →5168 times
לָקַ֤חhe accepted
lakachH3947 →966 times
מִיָּדֵ֙נוּ֙from hand our
miyadenuH3027 →1618 times
עֹלָ֣הa burnt offering
ʾolahH5930 →287 times
וּמִנְחָ֔הand a grain offering
uminchahH4503 →211 times
וְלֹ֥אand not
velo'H3808 →5168 times
הֶרְאָ֖נוּhe showed us
heranuH7200 →1300 times
אֶת־<obj.>
ʾet-H853 →10935 times
כָּל־all
kol-H3605 →5413 times
אֵ֑לֶּהthese [things]
ʾelehH428 →746 times
וְכָעֵ֕תand about <the> this time
vekhaetH6256 →296 times
לֹ֥אnot
lo'H3808 →5168 times
הִשְׁמִיעָ֖נוּhe caused to hear us
hishmianuH8085 →1159 times
כָּזֹֽאת׃like this
kazotH2063 →603 times
A shaded row is a word that stands 400 times or fewer in the Bible.
The walk
8 stopsEach card is a verse this one points to, and under it the verses that one points to in turn. Where several paths arrive at the same place, that place is listed first: the text keeps returning to it.
Through
John 15:15No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not understand what his master is doing. But I have called you friends, because everything I have learned from My Father I have…
it leads to
- Psalms 25:14
The LORD confides in those who fear Him, and reveals His covenant to them.
- 1 Corinthians 2:9–12
Rather, as it is written: “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no heart has imagined, what God has prepared for those who love Him.”
- Matthew 13:11
He replied, “The knowledge of the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven has been given to you, but not to them.
- James 2:23
And the Scripture was fulfilled that says, “Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness,” and he was called a friend of God.
- Psalms 25:14
Through
Psalms 25:14The LORD confides in those who fear Him, and reveals His covenant to them.
it leads to
- John 15:15
No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not understand what his master is doing. But I have called you friends, because everything I have learned from My Father I have…
- John 14:21–23
Whoever has My commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me. The one who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and reveal Myself to him.”
- John 15:15
Through
John 14:20On that day you will know that I am in My Father, and you are in Me, and I am in you.
it leads to
- John 15:5–7
I am the vine and you are the branches. The one who remains in Me, and I in him, will bear much fruit. For apart from Me you can do nothing.
- John 15:5–7
Through
Psalms 86:17Show me a sign of Your goodness, that my enemies may see and be ashamed; for You, O LORD, have helped me and comforted me.
it leads to
- Psalms 41:10–11
But You, O LORD, be gracious to me and raise me up, that I may repay them.
- Psalms 41:10–11
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About Judges

This page draws on Adam Clarke, Commentary on the Bible; Charles Spurgeon, The Metropolitan Tabernacle Pulpit, Sermon No. 1340: “Manoah's Wife and Her Excellent Argument” (lightly modernized text, CCEL edition); Charles Spurgeon, The Metropolitan Tabernacle Pulpit, Sermon No. 1340: “Manoah's Wife and Her Excellent Argument”; Charles Spurgeon, The Metropolitan Tabernacle Pulpit, Sermon No. 440: “Cheer For The Faint-Hearted” (lightly modernized text, CCEL edition); John Gill, Exposition of the Old Testament; John Gill, Exposition of the Old Testament (1748-1763); John Wesley, Explanatory Notes upon the Old Testament and Matthew Henry, Commentary on the Whole Bible.
