Exodus 22:17
in Exodus 22If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, the man still must pay an amount comparable to the bridal price of a virgin.
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The same verse in ASV and KJV ▾
ASV
If her father utterly refuse to give her unto him, he shall pay money according to the dowry of virgins.
KJV
If her father utterly refuse to give her unto him, he shall pay money according to the dowry of virgins.
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This verse in Exodus 22
Commentary
3 notes on this verseIf she was betrothed to another, it was death to debauch her ( Deut. xxii. 23, 24 ); but the law here mentioned respects her as single. But, if the father refused her to him, he was to give satisfaction in money for the injury and disgrace he had done her.
This site's exposition
If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged in marriage
on Exodus 22:16-17
The seducer owes marriage and a dowry, and if the father refuses to give her he still owes the dowry of virgins. The woman is provided for whichever way the family decides, and Deuteronomy 22:28-29 sets the sum at fifty shekels.
The record, by era
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The words behind it
10 Hebrew wordsEvery Hebrew word of this verse in the order it stands, with what it means and the door to its own study. The last column counts the times a word stands in the whole Bible: the rarer the word, the more the places it appears belong together.
| Hebrew | Sound | Meaning | Word study | In the Bible |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| אִם־ | ʾim- | if | H518 → | 1069 times |
| מָאֵ֧ן | maen | absolutely <refuse> | H3985 → | 41 times |
| יְמָאֵ֛ן | yemaen | he will refuse | H3985 → | 41 times |
| אָבִ֖יהָ | ʾaviha | father her | H1 → | 1212 times |
| לְתִתָּ֣הּ | letitah | to give her | H5414 → | 2011 times |
| ל֑וֹ | lo | to <the> him | ||
| כֶּ֣סֶף | kesef | silver | H3701 → | 403 times |
| יִשְׁקֹ֔ל | yishkol | he will weigh out | H8254 → | |
| כְּמֹ֖הַר | kemohar | according to [the] bride-price of | H4119 → | |
| הַבְּתוּלֹֽת׃ ס | habetulot | <the> virgins | H1330 → |
אִם־if
ʾim-H518 →1069 times
מָאֵ֧ןabsolutely <refuse>
maenH3985 →41 times
יְמָאֵ֛ןhe will refuse
yemaenH3985 →41 times
אָבִ֖יהָfather her
ʾavihaH1 →1212 times
לְתִתָּ֣הּto give her
letitahH5414 →2011 times
ל֑וֹto <the> him
lo
כֶּ֣סֶףsilver
kesefH3701 →403 times
יִשְׁקֹ֔לhe will weigh out
yishkolH8254 →
כְּמֹ֖הַרaccording to [the] bride-price of
kemoharH4119 →
הַבְּתוּלֹֽת׃ ס<the> virgins
habetulotH1330 →
A shaded row is a word that stands 400 times or fewer in the Bible.
The walk
8 stopsEach card is a verse this one points to, and under it the verses that one points to in turn. Where several paths arrive at the same place, that place is listed first: the text keeps returning to it.
Through
Genesis 34:12Demand a high dowry and an expensive gift, and I will give you whatever you ask. Only give me the girl as my wife!”
it leads to
- Exodus 22:16–17
If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged in marriage and sleeps with her, he must pay the full dowry for her to be his wife.
Reached by 2 separate paths from here.
- Exodus 22:16–17
Through
Deuteronomy 22:29then the man who lay with her must pay the young woman’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she must become his wife because he has violated her. He must not divorce her as…
it leads to
- Deuteronomy 22:19
They are also to fine him a hundred shekels of silver and give them to the young woman’s father, because this man has given a virgin of Israel a bad name. And she shall…
- Deuteronomy 22:24
you must take both of them out to the gate of that city and stone them to death—the young woman because she did not cry out in the city, and the man because he…
- Deuteronomy 22:19
Through
1 Samuel 18:25Saul replied, “Say to David, ‘The king desires no other dowry but a hundred Philistine foreskins as revenge on his enemies.’” But Saul intended to cause David’s death at the hands of the Philistines.
it leads to
- 1 Samuel 14:24
Now the men of Israel were in distress that day, for Saul had placed the troops under an oath, saying, “Cursed is the man who eats any food before evening, before I have taken…
- Genesis 34:12
Demand a high dowry and an expensive gift, and I will give you whatever you ask. Only give me the girl as my wife!”
- 1 Samuel 18:17
Then Saul said to David, “Here is my older daughter Merab. I will give her to you in marriage. Only be valiant for me and fight the LORD’s battles.” But Saul was thinking, “I…
- 1 Samuel 14:24
Through
Genesis 23:16Abraham agreed to Ephron’s terms and weighed out for him the price he had named in the hearing of the Hittites: four hundred shekels of silver, according to the standard of the merchants.
it leads to
- Jeremiah 32:9
So I bought the field in Anathoth from my cousin Hanamel, and I weighed out seventeen shekels of silver.
- Zechariah 11:12
Then I told them, “If it seems right to you, give me my wages; but if not, keep them.” So they weighed out my wages, thirty pieces of silver.
- Jeremiah 32:9
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About Exodus

This page draws on Adam Clarke, Commentary on the Bible; John Gill, Exposition of the Old Testament (1748-1763) and Matthew Henry, Commentary on the Whole Bible.
