1 Kings 3:21
in 1 Kings 3The next morning, when I got up to nurse my son, I discovered he was dead. But when I examined him, I realized that he was not the son I had borne.”
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The same verse in ASV and KJV ▾
ASV
And when I rose in the morning to give my child suck, behold, it was dead; but when I had looked at it in the morning, behold, it was not my son, whom I did bear.
KJV
And when I rose in the morning to give my child suck, behold, it was dead: but when I had considered it in the morning, behold, it was not my son, which I did bear.
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This verse in 1 Kings 3
Commentary
12 notes on this verseThe interpretation of Solomon's judgment on the quarrel of two harlot women (1 Kings 3) is clear as far as the simple history is concerned: that a boy of twelve years judged with an affection beyond his age for the depths of human nature. Hence, he was both admired and feared by all Israel, because he would not miss what was so skillfully concealed.
This site's exposition
this woman’s child died in the night
on 1 Kings 3:19-21
One child dies in the night, and the woman telling the story states plainly that she overlaid it, an accidental smothering the text records without softening. She then claims the living child was switched for the dead one while she slept, and the other woman's whole case rests on a mother's morning recognition, when I had considered it, behold, it was not my son. Nothing in the account settles the matter by evidence outside the two women's testimony, which is exactly the impasse the king must resolve.
This site's exposition
when I got up to nurse my son
The first woman got up to nurse her son and found a dead child at her bosom. Matthew Henry calls the age of a newborn the valley of the shadow of death and marvels that so few babies die in nursing. One such death began this case.
The record, by era
The Church Fathers5 voices
The first idea that occurs to me on consideration is that the two women are the synagogue and the church. For the synagogue is convicted of having killed Christ her son, born of the Jews according to the flesh, in her sleep; that is, by following the light of this present life and not perceiving the revelation of trust in the sayings of the Lord. That is why it is written, "Rise, sleeper, and arise from the dead, and Christ will enlighten you." That they were two and that they were alone, living in one house, may be taken to mean, without being far-fetched, that besides the circumcision and the uncircumcision there is no other kind of religion to be found in this world. So under the person of one woman you can include the race of circumcised men bound by the worship and the law of one God, while under the person of the other woman you can comprehend all the uncircumcised Gentiles given over to the worship of idols.But they were both harlots. Well, the apostles say that Jews and Greeks are all under sin. Every soul that forsakes eternal truth for base earthly pleasures is whoring away from the Lord. Now about the church that comes from the whoredom of the Gentiles, it is clear that it did not kill Christ.… Pay attention to the Gospel and listen to what the Lord says: "Whoever does the will of my Father, this is my mother and brother and sister." So when did this one sleep, not indeed to smother her child in sleep but at least so that the dead one could be substituted and the living one taken away from her? […]
Now let the other one claim that the gospel is hers, as being owed to her and produced through her. For that is what they were saying to the Gentiles in this dispute, those of the Jews who, while clinging to the letter of the law, dared to call themselves Christians. They were saying that the gospel had come as something owed to them for their justice. But it was not theirs, because they did not know how to grasp its spirit. So they even had the audacity to contend that they were to be called Christians, boasting in someone else's name like that woman claiming a son she had not borne; and this though by excluding a spiritual understanding from the works of the law they had as it were drained the soul out of the body of their works, and while smothering the live spirit of prophecy had remained attached to their material keeping of the law, which lacked all life, that is to say, spiritual understanding. They wanted to foist all this on the Gentiles too, and take from them, like the living child, the name of Christian. In refuting them, the apostle went so far as to say that the more they claim Christian grace as their due and boast that it is theirs as though by right of the works of the law, the less it really belongs to them. "For to one who works," he says, "his wages are not reckoned as a grace or favor but as his due. But to one who does not work but believes in him who justifies the wicked, it is faith that is reckoned as justice." And therefore he does not count among their number those of the Jews who had believed rightly and were holding fast to a living spiritual grace. He says this remnant of the Jewish people were saved, when the majority of them had gone to perdition. "So therefore at the present time also," he says, "a remnant has been saved, chosen by grace. […]
Again, I see these two women in one house as representing two kinds of people in one church: one of them dominated by insincerity, the other ruled by charity. So we may regard these two kinds of people simply like two women, called love and insincerity. Insincerity, of course, deceitfully imitates love. That is why the apostle warns us against her when he says, "Let love be without insincerity." Although the two live in one house as long as that gospel net is in the sea, enclosing good and bad fish together until it is brought ashore, yet each is doing her own thing. They were both harlots, though, because everyone is converted to the grace of God from worldly desires, and nobody can properly boast about any prior justice and its merits. A harlot's committing fornication is her own doing; her having a son is God's. All human beings, after all, are fashioned by the one creator God. Nor it is surprising that God works well even in the sins of men and women. After all, even the crime of Judas the traitor was used by our Lord to achieve the salvation of the human race. But the difference is that when God brings something good out of anyone's sin, it is not usually something that the sinner wants. It is not only that when he sins he does not sin with the same intention as God's providence turning his sin to a just end—Judas, you see, did not betray Christ with the same intention as Christ had in allowing himself to be betrayed; it is also that when he realizes his sin has produced a better result that he never wanted to happen, it gives him more pain than pleasure. Suppose, for example, someone wants to give his enemy poison while he is sick, but he makes a mistake about the kind of medicine and gives him something beneficial instead, so that the sick person gets better through the kindness of God, who decided to turn his enemy's villainy to his advantage. […]
The two women indicate to us the church and the synagogue. The latter, after it tried to suppress the sacrament of human redemption and persecuted and killed the Redeemer through false accusations, claims, nevertheless, that its child should still be alive, that is, that the …
Is not that noble judgment of Solomon full of wisdom and justice? Let us see whether it is so. "Two women," it says, "stood before King Solomon, and the one said to him, 'Hear me, my lord, I and this woman dwell in one house, and before the third day we gave birth and bore a son apiece and were together; there was no witness in the house, nor any other woman with us, only we two alone. And her son died this night, because she laid on him, and she arose at midnight, and took my son from my breast and laid him in her bosom, and her dead child she laid at my breast. And I arose in the morning to nurse my child and found him dead. And I examined him at dawn, and behold, it was not my son.' And the other woman said, 'No, but the living is my son, and the dead is your son.' " This was their dispute, in which either tried to claim the living child for herself and denied that the dead one was hers. Then the king commanded a sword to be brought and the infant to be cut in half, and either piece to be given to one, one half to the one, and one half to the other. Then the woman whose the child really was, moved by her feelings, cried out, "Do not divide the child, my lord; rather, let it be given to her and live, and do not kill it." But the other answered: "Let it be neither mine nor hers; divide it." Then the king ordered that the infant should be given to the woman who had said "do not kill it," for, as it says, "her compassion earned over her son."It is not wrong to suppose that the mind of God was in him; for what is hidden from God? What can be more hidden than the witness that lies deep within; into which the mind of the wise king as though to judge a mother's feelings and elicited as it were the voice of a mother's heart? […]
4 more voices on this verse
The Church Fathers1 voice
Such a Shechem is the church; for Solomon chose her whose hidden love he had discerned. Such a Shechem is Mary, whose soul God's sword pierces and divides. Such a Shechem is a "coming up," even as it appears in the meaning of the word. As to what the "coming up" is, hear Solomon speaking in reference to the church, "Who is she that comes up clothed in white, leaning on her brother?" She is radiant, a word expressed in Greek as aktinodes, because she is resplendent in faith and in works. To her children it is said, "Let your works shine before my Father, who is in heaven."
The Puritans and the Awakening3 voices
3 And Solomon loved the L ORD , walking in the statutes of David his father: only he sacrificed and burnt incense in high places. 4 And the king went to Gibeon to sacrifice there; for that was the great high place: a thousand burnt offerings did Solomon offer upon that altar. We are here told concerning Solomon, I.
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And when I rose in the morning to give my child suck,....
What anxiety is caused by little children, how uncertain their lives are, and to how many dangers they are continually exposed. The age of infancy is the valley of the shadow of death; and the lamp of life, when first lighted, is easily blown out. It is a wonder of mercy that so few perish in the perils of nursing.
The words behind it
16 Hebrew wordsEvery Hebrew word of this verse in the order it stands, with what it means and the door to its own study. The last column counts the times a word stands in the whole Bible: the rarer the word, the more the places it appears belong together.
| Hebrew | Sound | Meaning | Word study | In the Bible |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| וָאָקֻ֥ם | vaakum | and I rose | H6965 → | 628 times |
| בַּבֹּ֛קֶר | baboker | in the morning | H1242 → | 214 times |
| לְהֵינִ֥יק | leheinik | to suckle | H3243 → | |
| אֶת־ | ʾet- | <obj.> | H853 → | 10935 times |
| בְּנִ֖י | beni | son my | H1121 → | 4930 times |
| וְהִנֵּה־ | vehineh- | and there! | H2009 → | 843 times |
| מֵ֑ת | met | he had died | H4191 → | 839 times |
| וָאֶתְבּוֹנֵ֤ן | vaetbonen | and I looked carefully | H995 → | 170 times |
| אֵלָיו֙ | ʾelav | to him | H413 → | 5510 times |
| בַּבֹּ֔קֶר | baboker | in the morning | H1242 → | 214 times |
| וְהִנֵּ֛ה | vehineh | and there! | H2009 → | 843 times |
| לֹֽא־ | lo'- | not | H3808 → | 5168 times |
| הָיָ֥ה | hayah | it was | H1961 → | 3559 times |
| בְנִ֖י | veni | son my | H1121 → | 4930 times |
| אֲשֶׁ֥ר | ʾasher | whom | H834 → | 5497 times |
| יָלָֽדְתִּי׃ | yaladeti | I had borne | H3205 → | 496 times |
וָאָקֻ֥םand I rose
vaakumH6965 →628 times
בַּבֹּ֛קֶרin the morning
babokerH1242 →214 times
לְהֵינִ֥יקto suckle
leheinikH3243 →
אֶת־<obj.>
ʾet-H853 →10935 times
בְּנִ֖יson my
beniH1121 →4930 times
וְהִנֵּה־and there!
vehineh-H2009 →843 times
מֵ֑תhe had died
metH4191 →839 times
וָאֶתְבּוֹנֵ֤ןand I looked carefully
vaetbonenH995 →170 times
אֵלָיו֙to him
ʾelavH413 →5510 times
בַּבֹּ֔קֶרin the morning
babokerH1242 →214 times
וְהִנֵּ֛הand there!
vehinehH2009 →843 times
לֹֽא־not
lo'-H3808 →5168 times
הָיָ֥הit was
hayahH1961 →3559 times
בְנִ֖יson my
veniH1121 →4930 times
אֲשֶׁ֥רwhom
ʾasherH834 →5497 times
יָלָֽדְתִּי׃I had borne
yaladetiH3205 →496 times
A shaded row is a word that stands 400 times or fewer in the Bible.
The walk
8 stopsEach card is a verse this one points to, and under it the verses that one points to in turn. Where several paths arrive at the same place, that place is listed first: the text keeps returning to it.
Through
Genesis 21:7She added, “Who would have told Abraham that Sarah would nurse children? Yet I have borne him a son in his old age.”
it leads to
- Genesis 18:11–12
And Abraham and Sarah were already old and well along in years; Sarah had passed the age of childbearing.
- Isaiah 66:8
Who has heard of such as this? Who has seen such things? Can a country be born in a day or a nation be delivered in an instant? Yet as soon as Zion was…
- Deuteronomy 4:32–34
Indeed, ask now from one end of the heavens to the other about the days that long preceded you, from the day that God created man on earth: Has anything as great as this…
- 2 Thessalonians 1:10
on the day He comes to be glorified in His saints and regarded with wonder by all who have believed, including you who have believed our testimony.
- Numbers 23:23
For there is no spell against Jacob and no divination against Israel. It will now be said of Jacob and Israel, ‘What great things God has done!’
- Genesis 18:11–12
Through
1 Samuel 1:23“Do what you think is best,” her husband Elkanah replied, “and stay here until you have weaned him. Only may the LORD confirm His word.” So Hannah stayed and nursed her son until she…
it leads to
- 2 Samuel 7:25
And now, O LORD God, confirm forever the word You have spoken concerning Your servant and his house. Do as You have promised,
- Matthew 24:19
How miserable those days will be for pregnant and nursing mothers!
- Luke 11:27
As Jesus was saying these things, a woman in the crowd raised her voice and said, “Blessed is the womb that bore You, and blessed are the breasts that nursed You!”
- 2 Samuel 7:25
Where this verse is studied
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About 1 Kings

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This page draws on Ambrose of Milan, On the Duties of the Clergy 2.8.44-47; Ambrose of Milan, Interrogation of Job and David 4.4.16; Augustine of Hippo, SERMON 10.2; Augustine of Hippo, SERMON 10.3; Augustine of Hippo, SERMON 10.5; Ephrem the Syrian, ON THE FIRST BOOK OF KINGS 3:16; Jerome, Letter 74; John Gill, Exposition of the Old Testament; John Gill, Exposition of the Old Testament (1748-1763); Keil, The Books of the Kings and Matthew Henry, Commentary on the Whole Bible.
