2 Samuel 18:5
in 2 Samuel 18Now the king had commanded Joab, Abishai, and Ittai, “Treat the young man Absalom gently for my sake.” And all the people heard the king’s orders to each of the commanders regarding Absalom.
BSB
The same verse in ASV and KJV ▾
ASV
And the king commanded Joab and Abishai and Ittai, saying, Deal gently for my sake with the young man, even with Absalom. And all the people heard when the king gave all the captains charge concerning Absalom.
KJV
And the king commanded Joab and Abishai and Ittai, saying, Deal gently for my sake with the young man, even with Absalom. And all the people heard when the king gave all the captains charge concerning Absalom.
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This verse in 2 Samuel 18
Commentary
4 notes on this verseMust the cause of the quarrel be the motive of mercy? Even in the holiest parents, nature may be guilty of an injurious tenderness, of a bloody indulgence. But was not this done in type of that immeasurable mercy of the true King and Redeemer of Israel, who prayed for his persecutors, for his murderers, Father, forgive them?
This site's exposition
What seemeth you best I will do
on 2 Samuel 18:4-5
David leaves the shape of the battle to his three commanders and stands at the gate as the army files out by hundreds and by thousands. Before they go he gives one order that reaches every ear in the camp: deal gently for my sake with the young man, even with Absalom. Matthew Henry reads the plea as a father's tenderness for the son who caused the war, and even sets it, carefully, beside the mercy of the true King who prayed for those who rose against him.
The record, by era
The Puritans and the Awakening1 voice
And the king commanded Joab, and Abishai, and Ittai,....
The Nineteenth Century1 voice
Deal gently - with the young man - David was the father of this worthless young man; and is it to be wondered at that he feels as a father? Who in his circumstances, that had such feelings as every man should have, would have felt, or acted otherwise?
The words behind it
24 Hebrew wordsEvery Hebrew word of this verse in the order it stands, with what it means and the door to its own study. The last column counts the times a word stands in the whole Bible: the rarer the word, the more the places it appears belong together.
| Hebrew | Sound | Meaning | Word study | In the Bible |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| וַיְצַ֣ו | vaytzav | and he commanded | H6680 → | 494 times |
| הַמֶּ֡לֶךְ | hamelekh | the king | H4428 → | 2525 times |
| אֶת־ | ʾet- | <obj.> | H853 → | 10935 times |
| י֠וֹאָב | yoo | Joab | H3097 → | 144 times |
| וְאֶת־ | veet | and <obj.> | H853 → | 10935 times |
| אֲבִישַׁ֤י | ʾavishai | Abishai | H52 → | 25 times |
| וְאֶת־ | veet | and <obj.> | H853 → | 10935 times |
| אִתַּי֙ | ʾitai | Ittai | H863 → | 9 times |
| לֵאמֹ֔ר | lemor | <to> saying | H559 → | 5305 times |
| לְאַט־ | leat- | to gentleness | H328 → | |
| לִ֖י | li | for <the> me | ||
| לַנַּ֣עַר | lanaar | to the young man | H5288 → | 239 times |
| לְאַבְשָׁל֑וֹם | leavshalom | to Absalom | H53 → | 110 times |
| וְכָל־ | vekhol | and all | H3605 → | 5413 times |
| הָעָ֣ם | haam | the people | H5971 → | 1873 times |
| שָׁמְע֗וּ | shameu | they heard | H8085 → | 1159 times |
| בְּצַוֹּ֥ת | betzavot | when commanded | H6680 → | 494 times |
| הַמֶּ֛לֶךְ | hamelekh | the king | H4428 → | 2525 times |
| אֶת־ | ʾet- | <obj.> | H853 → | 10935 times |
| כָּל־ | kol- | all | H3605 → | 5413 times |
| הַשָּׂרִ֖ים | hasarim | the commanders | H8269 → | 421 times |
| עַל־ | ʾal- | on | H5921 → | 5755 times |
| דְּבַ֥ר | devar | [the] matter of | H1697 → | 1440 times |
| אַבְשָׁלֽוֹם׃ | ʾavshalom | Absalom | H53 → | 110 times |
וַיְצַ֣וand he commanded
vaytzavH6680 →494 times
הַמֶּ֡לֶךְthe king
hamelekhH4428 →2525 times
אֶת־<obj.>
ʾet-H853 →10935 times
י֠וֹאָבJoab
yooH3097 →144 times
וְאֶת־and <obj.>
veetH853 →10935 times
אֲבִישַׁ֤יAbishai
ʾavishaiH52 →25 times
וְאֶת־and <obj.>
veetH853 →10935 times
אִתַּי֙Ittai
ʾitaiH863 →9 times
לֵאמֹ֔ר<to> saying
lemorH559 →5305 times
לְאַט־to gentleness
leat-H328 →
לִ֖יfor <the> me
li
לַנַּ֣עַרto the young man
lanaarH5288 →239 times
לְאַבְשָׁל֑וֹםto Absalom
leavshalomH53 →110 times
וְכָל־and all
vekholH3605 →5413 times
הָעָ֣םthe people
haamH5971 →1873 times
שָׁמְע֗וּthey heard
shameuH8085 →1159 times
בְּצַוֹּ֥תwhen commanded
betzavotH6680 →494 times
הַמֶּ֛לֶךְthe king
hamelekhH4428 →2525 times
אֶת־<obj.>
ʾet-H853 →10935 times
כָּל־all
kol-H3605 →5413 times
הַשָּׂרִ֖יםthe commanders
hasarimH8269 →421 times
עַל־on
ʾal-H5921 →5755 times
דְּבַ֥ר[the] matter of
devarH1697 →1440 times
אַבְשָׁלֽוֹם׃Absalom
ʾavshalomH53 →110 times
A shaded row is a word that stands 400 times or fewer in the Bible.
The walk
8 stopsEach card is a verse this one points to, and under it the verses that one points to in turn. Where several paths arrive at the same place, that place is listed first: the text keeps returning to it.
Through
Luke 23:34Then Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” And they divided up His garments by casting lots.
it leads to
- Matthew 5:44
But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,
- Acts 7:60
Falling on his knees, he cried out in a loud voice, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” And when he had said this, he fell asleep.
- 1 Peter 3:9
Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.
- 1 Peter 2:20–23
How is it to your credit if you are beaten for doing wrong and you endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God.
- Luke 6:27–28
But to those of you who will listen, I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you,
- Matthew 5:44
Through
2 Samuel 17:14Then Absalom and all the men of Israel said, “The advice of Hushai the Archite is better than that of Ahithophel.” For the LORD had purposed to thwart the good counsel of Ahithophel in…
it leads to
- 2 Samuel 15:34
But you can thwart the counsel of Ahithophel for me if you return to the city and say to Absalom: ‘I will be your servant, my king; in the past I was your father’s…
- 1 Corinthians 1:19–20
For it is written: “I will destroy the wisdom of the wise; the intelligence of the intelligent I will frustrate.”
- Proverbs 19:21
Many plans are in a man’s heart, but the purpose of the LORD will prevail.
- 2 Samuel 15:34
Where this verse is studied
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About 2 Samuel

This page draws on Adam Clarke, Commentary on the Bible; John Gill, Exposition of the Old Testament (1748-1763) and Matthew Henry, Commentary on the Whole Bible.
