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2 Samuel 18:5

in 2 Samuel 18

Now the king had commanded Joab, Abishai, and Ittai, “Treat the young man Absalom gently for my sake.” And all the people heard the king’s orders to each of the commanders regarding Absalom.

BSB

The same verse in ASV and KJV ▾

ASV

And the king commanded Joab and Abishai and Ittai, saying, Deal gently for my sake with the young man, even with Absalom. And all the people heard when the king gave all the captains charge concerning Absalom.

KJV

And the king commanded Joab and Abishai and Ittai, saying, Deal gently for my sake with the young man, even with Absalom. And all the people heard when the king gave all the captains charge concerning Absalom.

This verse in 2 Samuel 18

Commentary

5 notes on this verse

A commentator

Matthew Henry

1662–1714

Commentary on the Whole Bible (1710)

Must the cause of the quarrel be the motive of mercy? Even in the holiest parents, nature may be guilty of an injurious tenderness, of a bloody indulgence. But was not this done in type of that immeasurable mercy of the true King and Redeemer of Israel, who prayed for his persecutors, for his murderers, Father, forgive them?

This site's exposition

I will do whatever seems best to you

on 2 Samuel 18:4-5

David tells his commanders, “I will do whatever seems best to you”, and stands beside the gate. In the hearing of the whole army he orders Joab, Abishai and Ittai, “Treat the young man Absalom gently for my sake”. The soldier at verse 12 repeats that order to Joab.

This site's exposition

Treat the young man Absalom gently

David had commanded Joab, Abishai, and Ittai to treat the young man Absalom gently for his sake. Matthew Henry calls this an injurious tenderness that makes the cause of the war a reason for mercy. Adam Clarke answers that any father would have felt the same.

The record, by era

The Puritans and the Awakening1 voice

And the king commanded Joab, and Abishai, and Ittai,....

The Nineteenth Century1 voice

A commentator

Adam Clarke

1762–1832

Commentary on the Bible · Written before 1832.

proposed

Deal gently - with the young man - David was the father of this worthless young man; and is it to be wondered at that he feels as a father? Who in his circumstances, that had such feelings as every man should have, would have felt, or acted otherwise?

The words behind it

24 Hebrew words

Every Hebrew word of this verse in the order it stands, with what it means and the door to its own study. The last column counts the times a word stands in the whole Bible: the rarer the word, the more the places it appears belong together.

  • וַיְצַ֣וand he commanded

    vaytzavH6680 →494 times

  • הַמֶּ֡לֶךְthe king

    hamelekhH4428 →2525 times

  • אֶת־<obj.>

    ʾet-H853 →10935 times

  • י֠וֹאָבJoab

    yooH3097 →144 times

  • וְאֶת־and <obj.>

    veetH853 →10935 times

  • אֲבִישַׁ֤יAbishai

    ʾavishaiH52 →25 times

  • וְאֶת־and <obj.>

    veetH853 →10935 times

  • אִתַּי֙Ittai

    ʾitaiH863 →9 times

  • לֵאמֹ֔ר<to> saying

    lemorH559 →5305 times

  • לְאַט־to gentleness

    leat-H328 →

  • לִ֖יfor <the> me

    li

  • לַנַּ֣עַרto the young man

    lanaarH5288 →239 times

  • לְאַבְשָׁל֑וֹםto Absalom

    leavshalomH53 →110 times

  • וְכָל־and all

    vekholH3605 →5413 times

  • הָעָ֣םthe people

    haamH5971 →1873 times

  • שָׁמְע֗וּthey heard

    shameuH8085 →1159 times

  • בְּצַוֹּ֥תwhen commanded

    betzavotH6680 →494 times

  • הַמֶּ֛לֶךְthe king

    hamelekhH4428 →2525 times

  • אֶת־<obj.>

    ʾet-H853 →10935 times

  • כָּל־all

    kol-H3605 →5413 times

  • הַשָּׂרִ֖יםthe commanders

    hasarimH8269 →421 times

  • עַל־on

    ʾal-H5921 →5755 times

  • דְּבַ֥ר[the] matter of

    devarH1697 →1440 times

  • אַבְשָׁלֽוֹם׃Absalom

    ʾavshalomH53 →110 times

A shaded row is a word that stands 400 times or fewer in the Bible.

The walk

8 stops

Each card is a verse this one points to, and under it the verses that one points to in turn. Where several paths arrive at the same place, that place is listed first: the text keeps returning to it.

  • Through

    Luke 23:34

    Then Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” And they divided up His garments by casting lots.

    it leads to

    • Matthew 5:44

      But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,

    • Acts 7:60

      Falling on his knees, he cried out in a loud voice, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” And when he had said this, he fell asleep.

    • 1 Peter 3:9

      Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.

    • 1 Peter 2:20–23

      How is it to your credit if you are beaten for doing wrong and you endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God.

    • Luke 6:27–28

      But to those of you who will listen, I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you,

  • Through

    2 Samuel 17:14

    Then Absalom and all the men of Israel said, “The advice of Hushai the Archite is better than that of Ahithophel.” For the LORD had purposed to thwart the good counsel of Ahithophel in…

    it leads to

    • 2 Samuel 15:34

      But you can thwart the counsel of Ahithophel for me if you return to the city and say to Absalom: ‘I will be your servant, my king; in the past I was your father’s…

    • 1 Corinthians 1:19–20

      For it is written: “I will destroy the wisdom of the wise; the intelligence of the intelligent I will frustrate.”

    • Proverbs 19:21

      Many plans are in a man’s heart, but the purpose of the LORD will prevail.

Where this verse is studied

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About 2 Samuel

The Death of Absalom — Gustave Doré, Doré's English Bible (1866), public domain
The Death of Absalom — Gustave Doré, Doré's English Bible (1866), public domain

This page draws on Adam Clarke, Commentary on the Bible; John Gill, Exposition of the Old Testament (1748-1763) and Matthew Henry, Commentary on the Whole Bible.