Luke 14:9
in Luke 14Then the host who invited both of you will come and tell you, ‘Give this man your seat.’ And in humiliation, you will have to take the last place.
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ASV
and he that bade thee and him shall come and say to thee, Give this man place; and then thou shalt begin with shame to take the lowest place.
KJV
And he that bade thee and him come and say to thee, Give this man place; and thou begin with shame to take the lowest room.
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This verse in Luke 14
Commentary
17 notes on this verse(in reg. fus. ad inter. 12.) To take then the lowest place at a feast, according to our Lord's command, is becoming to every man, but again to rush contentiously after this is to be condemned as a breach of order and cause of tumult; and a strife raised about it, will place you on a level with those who dispute concerning the highest place. Wherefore, as our Lord here says, it becomes him who makes the feast to arrange the order of sitting down.
This site's exposition
chose the places of honor
on Luke 14:7-9
Jesus draws the parable from a habit He watched at the table, guests choosing the places of honor. The counsel draws on the wisdom books' warning against exalting oneself before a ruler, applied here to a wedding banquet.
This site's exposition
take the last place
The host who seats the guests also moves them. The move happens in front of the whole room, and the middle places are already taken, so the proud guest goes to the bottom. Bede read that shame as the end of a man's high thoughts about his own works.
The record, by era
The Church Fathers3 voices
A commentator
Cyril of AlexandriaCommentary on the Gospel of Luke, Sermon 102 · Written before 444.
proposed
He saw certain of those who were invited foolishly seizing the uppermost seats as a thing of importance, and worth the taking, and that they were eager after vainglory, for the benefit both of them and us He utters an urgent warning, saying; "When you are bidden of any one, seat not yourself at the head of the seat, lest a more honourable man than you be bidden of him, and when he that bade you and him comes, he say unto you, Give this man place; and then you begin with shame to take the lowest place." Now such things may seem perchance to some to be but trifling matters, and not worthy of much attention. But when any one fixes upon them the eye of his mind, he will then learn, from what blame they deliver a man, and how great orderliness they produce in him. For in the first place to hurry inconsiderately after honours neither suitable, nor due to us, shows us to be foolish, rude, and arrogant, seizing what is not fitting for us, but for others rather, who are greater than and superior to ourselves. Whoever he is that thus acts, is hated, and often too becomes an object of ridicule, when he has to restore to others, and that often against his will, the honour which in no respect belongs unto him.
(non occ.) And so the seeker of honour obtained not that which he coveted, but suffered a defeat, and busying himself how he might be loaded with honours, is treated with dishonour. And because nothing is of so much worth as modesty, He leads His hearer to the opposite of this seeking; not only forbidding him to seek the highest place, but bidding him search for the lowest. As it follows; But when thou art bidden, go and sit down in the lowest room.
Then, Christ teaches humility. At the feast, Christ gently opposes the longing for a better seat, so that the humanity of persuasion excludes the harshness of coercion, reason promotes the effect of persuasion, and correction chastises pride.
The Medieval Church2 voices
For he will have to give place to one more honourable who is bidden afterwards, seeing that he is overtaken by the activity of those who followed him, and with shame he occupies the lowest place, now that knowing better things of the others he brings low whatever high thoughts he once had of his own works.
And then he who invited both you and him, coming, through the disposition of justice: Proverbs 16: "God is the weigher of spirits"; will say to you: Give this one your place, on account of the preeminence of dignity: 1 Kings 15: "The Lord has …
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The Medieval Church4 voices
Now let no one deem the above precepts of Christ to be trifling, and unworthy of the sublimity and grandeur of the Word of God. For you would not call him a merciful physician who professed to heal the gout, but refused to cure a scar on the finger or a tooth-ache. Besides, how can that passion of vainglory appear slight, which moved or agitated those who sought the first seats. It became then the Master of humility to cut off every branch of the bad root. But observe this also, that when the supper was ready, and the wretched guests were contending for precedency before the eyes of the Saviour, there was a fit occasion for advice. Moreover, he is not to be respected in the end, nor by all men, who thrusts himself into honours; but while by some he is honoured, by others he is disparaged, and sometimes even by the very men who outwardly honour him.
Lest perhaps someone more honorable than you has been invited by him, and the one who invited both him and you comes and says to you, "Give this man your place," and then you begin with shame to take the lowest place. He gives place …
A commentator
Bernard of ClairvauxSermons on the Song of Songs, Sermon 37 · Written before 1153.
proposed
For if we could clearly know in what state God holds each one of us, we should neither depart above nor below, acquiescing in the truth in all things. But now, because this counsel has placed darkness as its hiding place, and the word is …
Look from the other side also at this: from what mockery He delivers man and how He teaches him propriety. For how much shame there is in the case where you take a place unbefitting to you, and then someone more honored than you arrives, …
The Puritans and the Awakening2 voices
Note, It ought to check our high thoughts of ourselves to think how many there are that are more honourable than we, not only in respect of worldly dignities, but of personal merits and accomplishments. Instead of being proud that so many give place to us, it should be humbling to us that there are so many that we must give place to.
And he that bade thee and him,....
The Nineteenth Century3 voices
A commentator
Jamieson, Fausset & Brown1802–1910
Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible (1871)
proposed
a parable--showing that His design was not so much to inculcate mere politeness or good manners, as underneath this to teach something deeper (Lu 14:11). chief rooms--principal seats, in the middle part of the couch on which they reclined at meals, esteemed the most honorable.
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A commentator
J.C. Ryle1816–1900
Expository Thoughts on the Gospels: Luke (lightly modernized text, Grace Gems edition) (1858)
proposed
Let us first learn from these verses — the value of humility . This is a lesson which our Lord teaches in two ways. Firstly, He advises those who are bidden to a wedding to "sit down in the lowest place." Secondly, He backs up His advice by declaring a great principle, which frequently fell from His lips, "Whoever exalts himself — shall be abased; and he who humbles himself — shall be exalted." Humility may well be called the queen of the Christian graces.
A commentator
J.C. Ryle1816–1900
Expository Thoughts on the Gospels: Luke (lightly modernized text, Grace Gems edition) (1858)
proposed
Let us first learn from these verses — the value of humility . This is a lesson which our Lord teaches in two ways. Firstly, He advises those who are bidden to a wedding to "sit down in the lowest place." Secondly, He backs up His advice by declaring a great principle, which frequently fell from His lips, "Whoever exalts himself — shall be abased; and he who humbles himself — shall be exalted." Humility may well be called the queen of the Christian graces. To know our own sinfulness and weakness, and to feel our need of Christ — is the start of saving religion. Humility is a grace which has always been a distinguishing feature in the character of the holiest saints in every age. Abraham and Moses and Job and David and Daniel and Paul — were all eminently humble men. Above all, humility is a grace within the reach of every true Christian . All do not have money to give away. All do not have time and opportunities for working directly for Christ. All do not have gifts of speech, and knowledge, in order to do good in the world. But all converted men should labor to adorn the doctrine they profess by humility. If they can do nothing else — they can strive to be humble. Do you want to know the root and spring of humility? One word describes it. The root of humility is right knowledge. The person . . . who really knows himself and his own heart, who knows God and his infinite majesty and holiness, who knows Christ and the price at which he was redeemed — that person will never be a proud person. He will count himself, like Jacob, unworthy of the least of all God's mercies. He will say of himself, like Job, "I am vile!" He will cry, like Paul, "I am the chief of sinners!" He will consider others better than himself (Philippians 2:3). Ignorance — nothing but sheer ignorance, ignorance of self, of God, and of Christ — is the real secret of pride.
The words behind it
21 Greek wordsEvery Greek word of this verse in the order it stands, with what it means and the door to its own study. The last column counts the times a word stands in the whole Bible: the rarer the word, the more the places it appears belong together.
| Greek | Sound | Meaning | Word study | In the Bible |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| καὶ | kai | and | G2532 → | 9120 times |
| ἐλθὼν | elthon | having come | G2064 → | 628 times |
| ὁ | ho | the [one] | G3588 → | 19766 times |
| σὲ | se | you | G4771 → | 2973 times |
| καὶ | kai | and | G2532 → | 9120 times |
| αὐτὸν | auton | him | G846 → | 5565 times |
| καλέσας | kalesas | having invited | G2564 → | 147 times |
| ἐρεῖ | erei | he will say | G4483 → | 46 times |
| σοι· | soi | to you; | G4771 → | 2973 times |
| δὸς | dos | do give | G1325 → | 412 times |
| τούτῳ | touto | to this one | G3778 → | 1381 times |
| τόπον. | topon | [your] place. | G5117 → | 94 times |
| καὶ | kai | and | G2532 → | 9120 times |
| τότε | tote | then | G5119 → | 160 times |
| ἄρξῃ | arxe | you will begin | G757 → | 85 times |
| μετὰ | meta | with | G3326 → | 461 times |
| αἰσχύνης | aischunes | shame | G152 → | |
| τὸν | ton | the | G3588 → | 19766 times |
| ἔσχατον | eschaton | last | G2078 → | 52 times |
| τόπον | topon | place | G5117 → | 94 times |
| κατέχειν. | katechein | to take. | G2722 → | 17 times |
καὶand
kaiG2532 →9120 times
ἐλθὼνhaving come
elthonG2064 →628 times
ὁthe [one]
hoG3588 →19766 times
σὲyou
seG4771 →2973 times
καὶand
kaiG2532 →9120 times
αὐτὸνhim
autonG846 →5565 times
καλέσαςhaving invited
kalesasG2564 →147 times
ἐρεῖhe will say
ereiG4483 →46 times
σοι·to you;
soiG4771 →2973 times
δὸςdo give
dosG1325 →412 times
τούτῳto this one
toutoG3778 →1381 times
τόπον.[your] place.
toponG5117 →94 times
καὶand
kaiG2532 →9120 times
τότεthen
toteG5119 →160 times
ἄρξῃyou will begin
arxeG757 →85 times
μετὰwith
metaG3326 →461 times
αἰσχύνηςshame
aischunesG152 →
τὸνthe
tonG3588 →19766 times
ἔσχατονlast
eschatonG2078 →52 times
τόπονplace
toponG5117 →94 times
κατέχειν.to take.
katecheinG2722 →17 times
A shaded row is a word that stands 400 times or fewer in the Bible.
The walk
8 stopsEach card is a verse this one points to, and under it the verses that one points to in turn. Where several paths arrive at the same place, that place is listed first: the text keeps returning to it.
Through
Proverbs 11:2When pride comes, disgrace follows, but with humility comes wisdom.
it leads to
- Proverbs 29:23
A man’s pride will bring him low, but a humble spirit will obtain honor.
Reached by 2 separate paths from here.
- Proverbs 16:18–19
Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.
- Luke 18:14
I tell you, this man, rather than the Pharisee, went home justified. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”
- Proverbs 15:33
The fear of the LORD is the instruction of wisdom, and humility comes before honor.
- Proverbs 29:23
Through
Proverbs 16:18Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.
it leads to
- Proverbs 18:12
Before his downfall a man’s heart is proud, but humility comes before honor.
Reached by 2 separate paths from here.
- Proverbs 11:2
When pride comes, disgrace follows, but with humility comes wisdom.
- Isaiah 2:11–12
The proud look of man will be humbled, and the loftiness of men brought low; the LORD alone will be exalted in that day.
- Obadiah 1:3–4
The pride of your heart has deceived you, O dwellers in the clefts of the rocks whose habitation is the heights, who say in your heart, ‘Who can bring me down to the ground?’
- Proverbs 18:12
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This page draws on Adam Clarke, Commentary on the Bible; Ambrose of Milan, Exposition of the Gospel of Luke; Basil of Caesarea, Catena Aurea by Aquinas; Bede, Catena Aurea by Aquinas; Bede, On the Gospel of Luke; Bernard of Clairvaux, Sermons on the Song of Songs, Sermon 37; Bonaventure, Commentary on Luke, Chapter 14; Cyril of Alexandria, Commentary on the Gospel of Luke, Sermon 102; J.C. Ryle, Expository Thoughts on the Gospels: Luke (lightly modernized text, Grace Gems edition); Jamieson, Fausset & Brown, Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible; John Chrysostom, Catena Aurea by Aquinas; John Gill, Exposition of the New Testament; John Gill, Exposition of the New Testament (1746-1748); Matthew Henry, Commentary on the Whole Bible; Theophylact of Ohrid, Catena Aurea by Aquinas and Theophylact of Ohrid, Commentary on Luke.
