Jeremiah 20:14
in Jeremiah 20Cursed be the day I was born! May the day my mother bore me never be blessed.
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ASV
Cursed be the day wherein I was born: let not the day wherein my mother bare me be blessed.
KJV
Cursed be the day wherein I was born: let not the day wherein my mother bare me be blessed.
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This verse in Jeremiah 20
Commentary
10 notes on this verseA commentator
Jamieson, Fausset & Brown1802–1910
Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible (1871)
The contrast between the spirit of this passage and the preceding thanksgiving is to be explained thus: to show how great was the deliverance (Jer 20:13), he subjoins a picture of what his wounded spirit had been previous to his deliverance;
This site's exposition
Cursed be the day I was
on Jeremiah 20:14-18
The praise gives way to the bleakest lament: “Cursed be the day I was born!” He wishes he had died “in the womb so that my mother might have been my grave,” on the pattern of Job 3. The lament ends unanswered, showing the cost of the call at 1:5.
The record, by era
The Church Fathers3 voices
The apostle says, "God commends his charity toward us, because when as yet we were sinners, Christ died for us. Much more now that we are justified in his blood shall we be saved through him from the wrath." Of this wrath he says, "We were by nature children of wrath even as the rest." Of this wrath Jeremiah says, "Cursed be the day when I was born." Of this wrath holy Job says, "Let the day perish wherein I was born." Of this wrath the same Job says again, "Man born of a woman, living for a short time, is filled with many miseries."
(Verse 14 and following) Cursed be the day in which I was born, the day in which my mother bore me, let it not be blessed. Cursed be the man (or person) who brought the news to my father, saying, 'A male child is born to you,' and made him rejoice as if with joy. Let that man be like the cities that the Lord overthrew without regret; let him hear the cry in the morning and the wailing at noonday, because he did not kill me from the womb to be my mother's grave, and her womb forever pregnant. Why did I come forth from the womb to see labor and sorrow, and that my days should be consumed in confusion? Those who consider that the souls were in heavenly things, and were precipitated from a better to a worse state, make use of this and similar testimonies, which indeed imply that it is better to dwell in heavenly things than in earthly things and to assume a body of humility: certain new things, or rather old, seeking arguments for their heresy. But we, on the other hand, reading that of the blessed Job: Cursed be the day wherein I was born; and the night in which it was said, There is a man child conceived (Job 3:3). And cursed is the man who announced to my father, saying, a boy is born to you, we fit this testimony, namely that it is better not to exist than to live in torments, according to what is written: Death is rest for a man, to whom God has closed his way (Sirach. XXII, 11). And again: Why is light given to the miserable, and life to those who are bitter of soul (Job. III, 20)? And in the Gospel we read a simple statement: It would have been better for him if he had not been born (Matthew XXVI, 24): not that there is anyone who has not been born; but that it is better not to exist than to be in a bad state. For it is one thing to not exist at all, another to exist but suffer without any respite, just as we prefer a peaceful death to a miserable life. […]
How much dissatisfaction do we see that even the brief stages of our lives bring on us! The boy longs to be a young man. The young man counts the years when he will be older. The mature man, ungrateful for the blessing of being in the prime of life, eagerly desires the honor associated with old age. Thus, to all there comes naturally a desire for change, simply because we become dissatisfied with what we are now.
The Puritans and the Awakening2 voices
It seems to be a relation of the ferment he had been in while he was in the stocks, out of which by faith and hope he had recovered himself, rather than a new temptation which he afterwards fell into, and it should come in like that of David ( Ps. xxxi. 22 ), I said in my haste, I am cut off; this is also implied, Ps. lxxvii.
), by which it appears that he had sad remainders of corruption in him too, and was a man subject to like passions as we are. The Sin and Doom of Pashur. 1 Now Pashur the son of Immer the priest, who was also chief governor in the house of the L ORD , heard that Jeremiah prophesied these things.
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3 more voices on this verse
The Puritans and the Awakening2 voices
), because it was the beginning of sorrows, and an inlet to all this misery." It is a wish that he had never been born. Judas in hell has reason to wish so ( Matt. xxvi. 24 ), but no man on earth has reason to wish so, because he knows not but he may yet become a vessel of mercy, much less has any good man reason to wish so.
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Cursed be the day wherein I was born,....
The Nineteenth Century1 voice
Cursed be the day wherein I was born - If we take these words literally, and suppose them to be in their proper place, they are utterly inconsistent with that state of confidence in which he exulted a few minutes before. If they are the language of Jeremiah, they must have been spoken on a prior occasion, when probably he had given way to a passionate hastiness. They might well comport with the state he was in Jer 20:
How the passage was read
What the Jewish commentators add
Cursed be the day in which I was begotten (engendrer or engenrer in O.F.).
This section is reception history: how the passage was read and kept in the Jewish tradition. Where a reading parts from an essential of the Christian faith, the section says so at that point.
Texts and citation data: Sefaria; each excerpt follows its version’s licence. 5 further sources are cited on this chapter that carry no English text this site may quote or only restate the verse.
The words behind it
12 Hebrew wordsEvery Hebrew word of this verse in the order it stands, with what it means and the door to its own study. The last column counts the times a word stands in the whole Bible: the rarer the word, the more the places it appears belong together.
| Hebrew | Sound | Meaning | Word study | In the Bible |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| אָר֣וּר | ʾarur | [is] cursed | H779 → | 63 times |
| הַיּ֔וֹם | haiyom | the day | H3117 → | 2304 times |
| אֲשֶׁ֥ר | ʾasher | when | H834 → | 5497 times |
| יֻלַּ֖דְתִּי | yuladti | I was born | H3205 → | 496 times |
| בּ֑וֹ | bo | on <the> it | ||
| י֛וֹם | yom | [the] day | H3117 → | 2304 times |
| אֲשֶׁר־ | ʾasher- | when | H834 → | 5497 times |
| יְלָדַ֥תְנִי | yeladatni | she bore me | H3205 → | 496 times |
| אִמִּ֖י | ʾimi | mother my | H517 → | 220 times |
| אַל־ | ʾal- | may not | H408 → | 724 times |
| יְהִ֥י | yehi | it be | H1961 → | 3559 times |
| בָרֽוּךְ׃ | varukh | blessed | H1288 → | 330 times |
אָר֣וּר[is] cursed
ʾarurH779 →63 times
הַיּ֔וֹםthe day
haiyomH3117 →2304 times
אֲשֶׁ֥רwhen
ʾasherH834 →5497 times
יֻלַּ֖דְתִּיI was born
yuladtiH3205 →496 times
בּ֑וֹon <the> it
bo
י֛וֹם[the] day
yomH3117 →2304 times
אֲשֶׁר־when
ʾasher-H834 →5497 times
יְלָדַ֥תְנִיshe bore me
yeladatniH3205 →496 times
אִמִּ֖יmother my
ʾimiH517 →220 times
אַל־may not
ʾal-H408 →724 times
יְהִ֥יit be
yehiH1961 →3559 times
בָרֽוּךְ׃blessed
varukhH1288 →330 times
A shaded row is a word that stands 400 times or fewer in the Bible.
The walk
5 stopsEach card is a verse this one points to, and under it the verses that one points to in turn. Where several paths arrive at the same place, that place is listed first: the text keeps returning to it.
Through
Jeremiah 15:10Woe to me, my mother, that you have borne me, a man of strife and conflict in all the land. I have neither lent nor borrowed, yet everyone curses me.
it leads to
- Luke 6:22
Blessed are you when people hate you, and when they exclude you and insult you and reject your name as evil because of the Son of Man.
- Jeremiah 15:20
Then I will make you a wall to this people, a fortified wall of bronze; they will fight against you but will not overcome you, for I am with you to save and deliver…
- Psalms 120:5–6
Woe to me that I dwell in Meshech, that I live among the tents of Kedar!
- Job 3:1–26
After this, Job opened his mouth and cursed the day of his birth.
- Jeremiah 1:18–19
Now behold, this day I have made you like a fortified city, an iron pillar, and bronze walls against the whole land—against the kings of Judah, its officials, its priests, and the people of…
- Luke 6:22
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This page draws on Adam Clarke, Commentary on the Bible; Ambrose of Milan, On the Death of Satyrus 2.124-25; Augustine of Hippo, AGAINST JULIAN 6:24.77-78; Carl Friedrich Keil, The Prophecies of Jeremiah; Jamieson, Fausset & Brown, Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible; Jerome, Commentary on Jeremiah; John Gill, Exposition of the Old Testament (1748-1763) and Matthew Henry, Commentary on the Whole Bible.
