Numbers 30:4
in Numbers 30and her father hears about her vow or pledge but says nothing to her, then all the vows or pledges by which she has bound herself shall stand.
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ASV
and her father heareth her vow, and her bond wherewith she hath bound her soul, and her father holdeth his peace at her; then all her vows shall stand, and every bond wherewith she hath bound her soul shall stand.
KJV
And her father hear her vow, and her bond wherewith she hath bound her soul, and her father shall hold his peace at her: then all her vows shall stand, and every bond wherewith she hath bound her soul shall stand.
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This verse in Numbers 30
Commentary
4 notes on this verseVowing is an ordinance of God; if we vow in hypocrisy we profane that ordinance: it is plainly determined, Better not vow than vow and not pay, Eccl. v. 5 . Be not deceived, God is not mocked. His promises to us are yea and amen, let not ours to him be yea and nay.
This site's exposition
If a woman also vow a vow unto the Lord
on Numbers 30:3-8
One procedure is written out twice, once for a daughter in her father's house and once for a wife, and both turn on the phrase in the day that he heareth. The power to disallow lasts that day and then closes, so a vow left unchallenged past it stands. Where the father or the husband does disallow it, the text says the Lord shall forgive her, which treats the vow as a real debt remitted rather than as words that never counted. Barnes reads the at all of verse 6 as covering a girl betrothed but not yet married, and Gill allows either the betrothed or the married woman.
The record, by era
The Puritans and the Awakening2 voices
This shows how great a deference children owe to their parents, and how much they ought to honour them and be obedient to them. It is for the interest of the public that the paternal authority be supported; for, when children are countenanced in their disobedience to their parents (as they were by the tradition of the elders, Matt. xv.
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How the passage was read
On Numbers 30:1-16On Numbers 30:1-16
Vows, oaths, and the words that bind
This chapter is the Torah's law of vows: “he shall not break his word; he shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth.” The tradition distinguished the neder, a vow that makes a thing forbidden or dedicated (“this property is korban,” that is, an offering, barred from ordinary use as if given to God), from the shevuah, an oath that binds the person to do or not do something. Around both grew a careful case law: the Mishnah records the substitute formulas people used for korban (konam, konach, konas, Nedarim 1:2), and the tradition itself admitted how far this law outran its text: the rules for releasing vows “fly in the air and have nothing to support them” (Chagigah 1:8).
Two Gospel collisions stand on this chapter. The korban vow that could lock a son's goods away from his own parents is what Jesus confronts in Mark 7:11. And the oath casuistry He attacks in Matthew 5:33-37 and 23:16-22 grew from the practice of swearing by substitutes (heaven, earth, Jerusalem, the Temple) to avoid God's name; the Mishnah itself records that one who administers an oath “in the name of heaven and in the name of earth” leaves the swearer exempt (Shevuot 4:13), exactly the graded-honesty loophole Jesus abolishes with “let your yes be yes.”
This section is reception history: how the passage was read and kept in the Jewish tradition. Where a reading parts from an essential of the Christian faith, the section says so at that point.
Sources: Mishnah Nedarim 1:2 (the korban substitute formulas) · Mishnah Shevuot 4:13 (an oath by heaven and earth does not bind) · Mishnah Chagigah 1:8 (vow-release “flies in the air”)
The words behind it
22 Hebrew wordsEvery Hebrew word of this verse in the order it stands, with what it means and the door to its own study. The last column counts the times a word stands in the whole Bible: the rarer the word, the more the places it appears belong together.
| Hebrew | Sound | Meaning | Word study | In the Bible |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| וְשָׁמַ֨ע | veshama' | and he will hear | H8085 → | 1159 times |
| אָבִ֜יהָ | ʾaviha | father her | H1 → | 1212 times |
| אֶת־ | ʾet- | <obj.> | H853 → | 10935 times |
| נִדְרָ֗הּ | nidrah | vow her | H5088 → | 60 times |
| וֶֽאֱסָרָהּ֙ | veesarah | and obligation her | H632 → | 11 times |
| אֲשֶׁ֣ר | ʾasher | which | H834 → | 5497 times |
| אָֽסְרָ֣ה | ʾaserah | she has bound | H631 → | 72 times |
| עַל־ | ʾal- | on | H5921 → | 5755 times |
| נַפְשָׁ֔הּ | nafshah | self her | H5315 → | 754 times |
| וְהֶחֱרִ֥ישׁ | vehecherish | and he will keep silent | H2790 → | 74 times |
| לָ֖הּ | lah | to <the> her | ||
| אָבִ֑יהָ | ʾaviha | father her | H1 → | 1212 times |
| וְקָ֙מוּ֙ | vekamu | and they will stand | H6965 → | 628 times |
| כָּל־ | kol- | all | H3605 → | 5413 times |
| נְדָרֶ֔יהָ | nedareiha | vows her | H5088 → | 60 times |
| וְכָל־ | vekhol | and every | H3605 → | 5413 times |
| אִסָּ֛ר | ʾisar | obligation | H632 → | 11 times |
| אֲשֶׁר־ | ʾasher- | which | H834 → | 5497 times |
| אָסְרָ֥ה | ʾaserah | she has bound | H631 → | 72 times |
| עַל־ | ʾal- | on | H5921 → | 5755 times |
| נַפְשָׁ֖הּ | nafshah | self her | H5315 → | 754 times |
| יָקֽוּם׃ | yakum | it will stand | H6965 → | 628 times |
וְשָׁמַ֨עand he will hear
veshama'H8085 →1159 times
אָבִ֜יהָfather her
ʾavihaH1 →1212 times
אֶת־<obj.>
ʾet-H853 →10935 times
נִדְרָ֗הּvow her
nidrahH5088 →60 times
וֶֽאֱסָרָהּ֙and obligation her
veesarahH632 →11 times
אֲשֶׁ֣רwhich
ʾasherH834 →5497 times
אָֽסְרָ֣הshe has bound
ʾaserahH631 →72 times
עַל־on
ʾal-H5921 →5755 times
נַפְשָׁ֔הּself her
nafshahH5315 →754 times
וְהֶחֱרִ֥ישׁand he will keep silent
vehecherishH2790 →74 times
לָ֖הּto <the> her
lah
אָבִ֑יהָfather her
ʾavihaH1 →1212 times
וְקָ֙מוּ֙and they will stand
vekamuH6965 →628 times
כָּל־all
kol-H3605 →5413 times
נְדָרֶ֔יהָvows her
nedareihaH5088 →60 times
וְכָל־and every
vekholH3605 →5413 times
אִסָּ֛רobligation
ʾisarH632 →11 times
אֲשֶׁר־which
ʾasher-H834 →5497 times
אָסְרָ֥הshe has bound
ʾaserahH631 →72 times
עַל־on
ʾal-H5921 →5755 times
נַפְשָׁ֖הּself her
nafshahH5315 →754 times
יָקֽוּם׃it will stand
yakumH6965 →628 times
A shaded row is a word that stands 400 times or fewer in the Bible.
About Numbers

This page draws on Albert Barnes, Notes on the Old Testament; John Gill, Exposition of the Old Testament; John Gill, Exposition of the Old Testament (1748-1763) and Matthew Henry, Commentary on the Whole Bible.
