1 Timothy 3:5
in 1 Timothy 3For if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how can he care for the church of God?
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ASV
(but if a man knoweth not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)
KJV
(For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)
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This verse in 1 Timothy 3
Commentary
12 notes on this verseFor if a man know not how to rule his own house,.... Which is an affair of less importance, and more easy to be done; not requiring so much resolution, prudence, care, and thought: how shall he take care of the church of God? preside over it, rule in it, provide for it, and see that everything is in its proper place, and done according to the will of God. The argument is from the lesser to the greater.
This site's exposition
how can he care for the church of God
on 1 Timothy 3:5-7
He must not be a recent convert, or he may become conceited and fall under the same condemnation as the devil. Pride is named as Satan's sin at Isaiah 14:12-15 and Ezekiel 28.
The record, by era
The Church Fathers5 voices
What is meant by good management, in the case of the children, is that the father is to guide them with wise counsel, such that, if they end up as nonbelievers, it is not his fault.
A commentator
Theodoret of CyrusINTERPRETATION OF THE FIRST LETTER TO TIMOTHY · Written before 458.
proposed
As a good overseer of his children, the father's task is not to abdicate to their opinion but to teach them all the virtues, even if he must act strongly to shape their wills.
Appoint, therefore, for yourselves, bishops and deacons worthy of the Lord, men meek, and not lovers of money, and truthful and proved; for they also render to you the service of prophets and teachers. Despise them not therefore, for they are your honoured ones, together with the prophets and teachers.
Therefore he asks, "if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the Church of God?" For the Church is, as it were, a small household, and as in a house there are children and wife and domestics, and the man has rule over them all; just so in the Church there are women, children, servants. And if he that presides in the Church has partners in his power, so hath the man a partner, that is, his wife. Ought the Church to provide for her widows and virgins? so there are in a family servants, and daughters, to be provided for. And, in fact, it is easier to rule the house.
If anyone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for the church of God? Whatever the bishops commanded in these strict matters, not drunkenness, not being violent, but moderation and the like, he who commanded the disciples, "Put to …
5 more voices on this verse
The Medieval Church2 voices
Then when he says, but if a man does not know, he gives the reason for his admonition. For it might be said: if a bishop rules his family well, what does that have to do with his care of the community? And so he …
A household is nothing other than a small church. Therefore, if he cannot be a good ruler of what is not great, and is easily defined, and easily known, then how can he govern the characters and thoughts — unimaginable — of so many souls? …
The Nineteenth Century3 voices
A commentator
Albert Barnes1798–1870
Notes, Explanatory and Practical, on the Old and New Testaments (1832-1869)
For if a man know not how to rule - This is a beautiful and striking argument. A church resembles a family. It is, indeed, larger, and there is a greater variety of dispositions in it than there is in a family. The authority of a minister of the gospel in a church is also less absolute than that of a father. But still there is a striking resemblance. The church is made up of an assemblage of brothers and sisters. They are banded together for the same purposes, and have a common object to aim at.
A commentator
Jamieson, Fausset & Brown1802–1910
Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible (1871)
For--Greek, "But." the church--rather, "a church" or congregation. How shall he who cannot perform the lesser function, perform the greater and more difficult?
For if a man know not - Method is a matter of great importance in all the affairs of life. It is a true saying, He that does little with his head must do much with his hands; and even then the business is not half done for want of method. Now, he who has a proper method of doing business will show it in every affair of life, even the least. He who has a disorderly family has no government of that family; he probably has none because he has no method, no plan, of presiding. It was natural for the apostle to say, If a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the Church of God? Look at a man’s domestic arrangements; if they be not good, he should not be trusted with any branch of government, whether ecclesiastical or civil.
The words behind it
13 Greek wordsEvery Greek word of this verse in the order it stands, with what it means and the door to its own study. The last column counts the times a word stands in the whole Bible: the rarer the word, the more the places it appears belong together.
| Greek | Sound | Meaning | Word study | In the Bible |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Εἰ | ei | if | G1487 → | 508 times |
| δέ | de | but | G1161 → | 2765 times |
| τις | tis | one | G5100 → | 528 times |
| τοῦ | tou | <the> | G3588 → | 19766 times |
| ἰδίου | idiou | his [own] | G2398 → | 114 times |
| οἴκου | oikou | household | G3624 → | 112 times |
| προστῆναι | prostenai | to manage | G4291 → | 8 times |
| οὐκ | ouk | not | G3756 → | 1664 times |
| οἶδεν, | oiden | knows, | ||
| πῶς | pos | how | G4459 → | |
| ἐκκλησίας | ekklesias | [the] church | G1577 → | 113 times |
| θεοῦ | theou | of God | G2316 → | 1312 times |
| ἐπιμελήσεται; | epimelesetai | will he care for? | G1959 → |
Εἰif
eiG1487 →508 times
δέbut
deG1161 →2765 times
τιςone
tisG5100 →528 times
τοῦ<the>
touG3588 →19766 times
ἰδίουhis [own]
idiouG2398 →114 times
οἴκουhousehold
oikouG3624 →112 times
προστῆναιto manage
prostenaiG4291 →8 times
οὐκnot
oukG3756 →1664 times
οἶδεν,knows,
oiden
πῶςhow
posG4459 →
ἐκκλησίας[the] church
ekklesiasG1577 →113 times
θεοῦof God
theouG2316 →1312 times
ἐπιμελήσεται;will he care for?
epimelesetaiG1959 →
A shaded row is a word that stands 400 times or fewer in the Bible.
The walk
8 stopsEach card is a verse this one points to, and under it the verses that one points to in turn. Where several paths arrive at the same place, that place is listed first: the text keeps returning to it.
Through
Acts 20:28Keep watch over yourselves and the entire flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers. Be shepherds of the church of God, which He purchased with His own blood.
it leads to
- 1 Peter 5:2–3
Be shepherds of God’s flock that is among you, watching over them not out of compulsion, but because it is God’s will; not out of greed, but out of eagerness;
- 1 Timothy 4:16
Pay close attention to your life and to your teaching. Persevere in these things, for by so doing you will save both yourself and those who hear you.
- 1 Peter 1:18–19
For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were redeemed from the empty way of life you inherited from your forefathers,
- Isaiah 40:11
He tends His flock like a shepherd; He gathers the lambs in His arms and carries them close to His heart. He gently leads the nursing ewes.
- 1 Timothy 3:2
An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,
- 1 Peter 5:2–3
Through
Ephesians 1:22And God put everything under His feet and made Him head over everything for the church,
it leads to
- Colossians 1:18
And He is the head of the body, the church; He is the beginning and firstborn from among the dead, so that in all things He may have preeminence.
- Colossians 2:10
And you have been made complete in Christ, who is the head over every ruler and authority.
- 1 Corinthians 15:25–27
For He must reign until He has put all His enemies under His feet.
- Colossians 1:18
Where this verse is studied
About 1 Timothy

This page draws on 13 works. Open the list of works
This page draws on Adam Clarke, Commentary on the Bible; Albert Barnes, Notes, Explanatory and Practical, on the Old and New Testaments (1832-1869); Didache, The Didache, Chapter 15; Jamieson, Fausset & Brown, Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible; John Chrysostom, Homily on 1 Timothy 10; John Gill, Exposition of the New Testament (1746-1748); John Gill, Exposition of the New Testament; John Wesley, Explanatory Notes upon the New Testament; Oecumenius, COMMENTARY ON 1 TIMOTHY; Theodore of Mopsuestia, COMMENTARY ON 1 TIMOTHY; Theodoret of Cyrus, INTERPRETATION OF THE FIRST LETTER TO TIMOTHY; Theophylact of Ohrid, Commentary on 1 Timothy and Thomas Aquinas, Commentary on 1 Timothy.
