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Romans 2 and Titus 3 · Passage · Kindness

The Kindness of God Leads to Repentance

Romans 2:4 and Titus 3:4 to 7 are two statements by Paul about God's kindness, in his letter to the church in Rome and his letter to Titus, whom he had left in Crete.

Paul tells Titus that "at one time we too were foolish, disobedient, misled, and enslaved to all sorts of desires and pleasures" (Titus 3:3).

Romans 2:4 BSB
Or do you disregard the riches of His kindness, tolerance, and patience, not realizing that God’s kindness leads you to repentance?

Summary

God's kindness is His goodness to people who have not earned it, and it reaches them before they turn to Him. Paul tells the reader in Romans who condemns others that God's kindness, tolerance and patience toward him are meant to bring him to repentance. To Titus he writes that God saved His people according to His mercy and apart from any righteous deeds of their own. The kindness that leads a sinner to turn is the kindness that saves him.

  • The Greek noun for kindness, chrestotes, names goodness of heart, and the New Testament uses it only in Paul's letters, in eight verses.
  • Romans 2:5 warns that a hard and unrepentant heart stores up wrath for the day when God's righteous judgment will be revealed.
  • Romans 11:22 sets the kindness of God beside His severity, and it warns the believer that he must continue in that kindness.
  • Titus 3:4 joins kindness to philanthropia, love for mankind, a word the New Testament uses only there and of the islanders of Malta (Acts 28:2).
  • Jesus taught that the Most High is kind to the ungrateful and wicked, and He told His disciples to be merciful as their Father is merciful (Luke 6:35 to 36).

God Is Kind First

Both passages put God's kindness before any turning on the part of the people who receive it.

These two passages speak of God's own kindness and of what it does in the life of a sinner. They belong to the study of kindness, the value Scripture asks of every believer, because they show the kindness God gives before He asks any of His people to show theirs. A reader who has been treated better than he deserved, or who has wondered why God has not yet judged him, will find the reason in these verses.

The question this study answers is how God's kindness brings a person to repentance and to salvation, and what follows when it is refused. It gives a table of the eight verses that use Paul's word for kindness and reads Romans 2:4 to 5 word by word. It then turns to the severity of Romans 11:22, the kindness that appeared in Titus 3, two readings of Romans 2:4 and the teachers who preached it.

Romans 1 describes the wickedness of men who suppress the truth, and at the start of chapter 2 Paul turns to his own reader.

You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on another. For on whatever grounds you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things.
Romans 2:1BSB

The man without excuse in this verse is the one Paul questions in verse 4, so the kindness is offered to a person who stands condemned by his own judgment.

So when you, O man, pass judgment on others, yet do the same things, do you think you will escape God’s judgment?
Romans 2:3BSB

Paul asks whether the judge expects to escape God's judgment, and verse 4 opens with or, a second question about how he reads God's patience with him.

The letter to Titus tells him to remind the believers to be peaceable and gentle toward everyone, and Paul gives the kindness of God as the reason.

Paul's Word for Kindness

The Berean text renders the noun kindness in every verse of the table except Romans 3:12, where it reads does good.

God shows the kindness in four of the eight verses, believers show it in three, and one verse finds it in no one.

VerseThe words in the Berean textWho shows it and what it does
Romans 2:4God’s kindness leads you to repentanceGod shows it to the one who judges others while he does the same things.
Romans 11:22Take notice, therefore, of the kindness and severity of GodGod shows it to Paul's Gentile readers in Rome.
Ephesians 2:7demonstrated by His kindness to us in Christ JesusGod shows it to believers in Christ, and it displays the surpassing riches of His grace in the coming ages.
Titus 3:4the kindness of God our Savior and His love for mankind appearedGod our Savior shows it to people living in malice and envy, and it appears and saves them.
2 Corinthians 6:6in purity, knowledge, patience, and kindnessPaul and those who served with him show it, and it commends them as servants of God.
Galatians 5:22the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindnessThe Spirit produces it in believers as part of His fruit.
Colossians 3:12clothe yourselves with hearts of compassion, kindnessThe elect of God put it on toward one another as a garment.
Romans 3:12there is no one who does good, not even onePaul quotes the Greek Old Testament to say that it is found in no one.
A table of eight rows, one row for each New Testament verse that uses chrestotes, with its Berean words, who shows the kindness and what it does.

Colossians 3:12, Romans 3:12

Kindness and patience stand in the same list in half of these verses, so the pair Paul asks of believers is the pair he first finds in God.

The Riches of His Kindness

The fourth verse of Romans 2 names three gifts of God and the purpose of them.

The verb Paul uses, kataphroneis, is the word for despising, which the lexicon glosses as to think against, and the Berean text renders it disregard. It is in the present tense and the singular, addressed to one reader.

Charles Spurgeon's sermon Earnest Expostulation, No. 1714 of the Metropolitan Tabernacle Pulpit, turns on this point, since in the verse the apostle "fixes his eyes upon a single person".

What the reader disregards is the riches, ploutos, of three things in God, which are His kindness (chrestotes), His tolerance (anoche) and His patience (makrothumia). The lexicon glosses anoche as forbearance and as a delay of punishment.

John Wesley, in his Explanatory Notes upon the New Testament, wrote that the three "are afterwards comprised in the single word goodness".

In the second half of the verse Paul uses the adjective, to chreston, the kind thing of God, which the Berean text renders God's kindness. The verb for leads is agei, a present indicative of the word the lexicon glosses as to lead, bring or carry. The reader disregards the kindness while not realizing, agnoon, what it is for.

But because of your hard and unrepentant heart, you are storing up wrath against yourself for the day of wrath, when God’s righteous judgment will be revealed.
Romans 2:5BSB

Paul answers the question of verse 4 by naming what the hard heart gains in place of repentance.

God's patience and the wrath it holds back are taught in full on The Patience and the Wrath of God.

The repentance the kindness leads to is metanoia, which the lexicon glosses as compunction for guilt, including reformation. What repentance asks of a person is taught on Repentance.

Kindness and Severity

Paul warns the Gentile believers at Rome that the God who is kind to them is also severe.

In Romans 11 Paul speaks to Gentile believers as wild olive shoots grafted in among branches that were broken off because of unbelief (Romans 11:13, Romans 11:17 and Romans 11:20).

Take notice, therefore, of the kindness and severity of God: severity to those who fell, but kindness to you, if you continue in His kindness. Otherwise you also will be cut off.
Romans 11:22BSB

The verse names God's kindness three times and His severity twice.

The word for severity, apotomia, is glossed in the lexicon as decisiveness or rigor, and the New Testament uses it only in this verse, twice. Paul asks the reader to look at both in one God, the severity on those who fell and the kindness on those who stand by faith.

Adam Clarke, in his Commentary on the Bible, wrote that the call to behold the goodness of God "is frequent among the Jewish writers". He added that they use it "to call the attention of men to particular displays of God’s mercy, especially towards those who are singularly unworthy".

Matthew Henry, in his Commentary on the Whole Bible, read the severity shown to Israel as a rejection that "is not final", and he wrote that "mercy is remembered in the midst of wrath".

The verb of the condition, epimenes, is a present subjunctive of the word the lexicon glosses as to remain and, figuratively, to persevere. Readers divide over whether the warning that a believer may be cut off can be fulfilled in one who truly believes. Theophylact, in his Commentary on Romans, observed that Paul named the goodness of God where he might have named the reader's merit, "for all is the work of God's grace".

The Kindness That Appeared in Christ

Titus 3:3 to 7 and Ephesians 2:7 tie God's kindness to Christ Jesus.

For at one time we too were foolish, disobedient, misled, and enslaved to all sorts of desires and pleasures—living in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another.
Titus 3:3BSB

The life the verse describes is the life God's kindness found, which is why the next verse opens with but.

But when the kindness of God our Savior and His love for mankind appeared, He saved us, not by the righteous deeds we had done, but according to His mercy, through the washing of new birth and renewal by the Holy Spirit. This is the Spirit He poured out on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by His grace, we would become heirs with the hope of eternal life.
Titus 3:4 to 7BSB

The four verses give the cause of salvation, its means and its end, from the kindness that appeared to the hope of eternal life.

The verb appeared, epephane, is the word the lexicon glosses as to shine upon or to become visible. Paul uses it in the chapter before of the grace of God, which "has appeared, bringing salvation to everyone" (Titus 2:11).

The lexicon glosses philanthropia as fondness of mankind or benevolence, and it gives the English word philanthropy beside the gloss. Adam Clarke regretted that the word had been "entirely lost by a paraphrastical translation", and he wrote, "Philanthropy is a character which God gives here to himself".

Verse 5 sets the righteous deeds we had done aside as the ground of the saving and names His mercy, eleos, in their place. John Gill, in his Exposition of the New Testament, wrote that the kindness appeared when these people "were in the full career of sin, and so had done no preparatory works".

The means Paul names are the washing of new birth, palingenesia, a word the lexicon glosses as spiritual rebirth, and the renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom God poured out abundantly through Jesus Christ. John Wesley's note on the passage gives justification as the first effect, which he described as being "pardoned and accepted through the alone merits of Christ, not from any desert in us".

Ephesians 2:7 uses the same noun, chrestotes, for the kindness God shows believers in Christ.

in order that in the coming ages He might display the surpassing riches of His grace, demonstrated by His kindness to us in Christ Jesus.
Ephesians 2:7BSB

Paul looks beyond the present life and gives God's goodness to believers a purpose that reaches into the future.

The next two verses, on salvation by grace through faith as the gift of God, are taught on Saved by Grace Through Faith.

How Teachers Have Preached the Kindness of God

Ambrosiaster wrote on despising God's patience, and Basil of Caesarea and Matthew Henry on what His kindness gives.

died 379 · Basil of Caesarea

Basil of Caesarea, in On the Holy Spirit, read the kindness of Titus 3 in the names given to Christ for each kind of care he gives. He wrote that when Christ "receives someone paralyzed by the devil's evil strokes and heals the heavy burden of his sins, he is called Physician".

died 384 · Ambrosiaster

Ambrosiaster, in his Commentary on Paul's Epistles, read Romans 2:4 as a warning given "so that no one should think that he has escaped, just because God's goodness has allowed him to go on sinning".

1662 to 1714 · Matthew Henry

Matthew Henry's note on Titus 3:4 to 7 is a call to praise: "Let us acknowledge this, and give him the glory of it, not turning it to wantonness, but to thankfulness and obedience".

Whom the Kindness Leads

Readers agree that the repentance Paul names is a turning of mind and life to God, and they differ over whom he has in view.

Paul speaks first to the Jewish hearerMatthew Henry

Matthew Henry, in his Commentary on the Whole Bible, wrote that Romans 2:4 "is especially applicable to the Jews, who had singular tokens of the divine favour". He added, "Means are mercies, and the more light we sin against the more love we sin against".

Now you, if you call yourself a Jew; if you rely on the law and boast in God;
Romans 2:17BSB

Paul names his reader as a man who calls himself a Jew and relies on the law, which supports reading the you of verses 1 to 5 as the same man.

The objection: verse 1 addresses anyone who passes judgment, and verses 9 and 10 name the Jew first and then the Greek, so the warning reaches beyond one people.

The kindness is meant to lead every sinner to repentanceJohn Wesley; Adam Clarke

John Wesley read the word leads to mean that God's kindness "is designed of God to lead or encourage" the sinner to repentance. Adam Clarke wrote that it "was designed to accomplish this blessed end", and that the reader's "want of consideration and acknowledgment" had left it ineffectual.

He must gently reprove those who oppose him, in the hope that God may grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth.
2 Timothy 2:25BSB

Paul speaks of repentance as something God may grant, a verse readers set beside the leading of Romans 2:4 when they ask why some are led and some are not.

The objection: verse 5 shows the same kindness meeting a hard and unrepentant heart, and 2 Timothy 2:25 calls repentance God's gift, so the kindness does not turn every sinner.

Kind as the Father Is Kind

In both letters God is kind first and the turning follows, and Jesus asked His disciples to keep the same order in their own dealings, doing good before any good is returned.

But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them, expecting nothing in return. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High; for He is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.
Luke 6:35 to 36BSB

Jesus makes the Father's mercy to the ungrateful the pattern for disciples who love their enemies and lend without hope of return.

Bede wrote on this verse in his commentary On the Gospel of Luke. He named two ways in which God is kind to the ungrateful, "either by his manifold mercy, by which he even saves animals, granting temporal goods, or by the singular grace of heavenly gifts". The command to love enemies is taught on Love Your Enemies, and kindness among believers on Be Kind to One Another.

Sources

Scripture is the Berean Standard Bible.

  1. The tagged Greek text of the New Testament, with Strong's numbers, morphology and glosses.
  2. STEP Bible TBESG lexicon of New Testament Greek, based on Abbott-Smith (1922), entries g71, g463, g663, g1961, g2014, g2706, g3341, g3824, g5363, g5543 and g5544 (Tyndale House, Cambridge, CC BY 4.0)
  3. Charles Spurgeon, Earnest Expostulation, Sermon No. 1714, The Metropolitan Tabernacle Pulpit (1883), on Romans 2:4 (CCEL edition)
  4. John Wesley, Explanatory Notes upon the New Testament (1755), on Romans 2:4 and Titus 3:5.
  5. Adam Clarke, Commentary on the Bible (1832), on Romans 2:4, Romans 11:22 and Titus 3:4.
  6. Matthew Henry, Commentary on the Whole Bible (1710), on Romans 2:4, Romans 11:22, Ephesians 2:7 and Titus 3:4 to 7.
  7. Theophylact of Ohrid, Commentary on Romans, on Romans 11:22.
  8. John Gill, Exposition of the New Testament (1746 to 1748), on Titus 3:4.
  9. Ambrosiaster, Commentary on Paul's Epistles, on Romans 2:4.
  10. Basil of Caesarea, On the Holy Spirit 8.18, on Titus 3:4.
  11. Bede, On the Gospel of Luke, on Luke 6:35.

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