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Esther 5:10

in Esther 5

Nevertheless, Haman restrained himself and went home. And calling for his friends and his wife Zeresh,

BSB

The same verse in ASV and KJV

ASV

Nevertheless Haman refrained himself, and went home; and he sent and fetched his friends and Zeresh his wife.

KJV

Nevertheless Haman refrained himself: and when he came home, he sent and called for his friends, and Zeresh his wife.

This verse in Esther 5

Commentary

6 notes on this verse
Nevertheless Haman refrained himself,.... From showing any outward resentment to Mordecai, from laying hands upon him or taking revenge on him, as being too much below him to avenge himself on a single person, when the whole body of the people Mordecai belonged to would shortly feel the power of his hand for such insolent treatment of him: and when he came home, he sent and called for his friends, and Zeresh his wife; who, the Targum says, was the daughter of Tatnai, the governor on the other side the river, Ezr 5:3.

This site's exposition

Nevertheless Haman refrained himself

on Esther 5:10-12

Haman restrains himself in the street and empties his heart at home, counting his riches, his many sons, and every mark of promotion above the king's own princes and servants. He closes with the one honor that outranks the rest in his own eyes, being the queen's sole guest besides the king, twice running. The list reads as a man reciting his own greatness in order to persuade himself it is enough.

The record, by era

The Puritans and the Awakening3 voices

A commentator

Matthew Henry

1662–1714

Commentary on the Whole Bible (1710)

What a struggle had he in his own bosom between his anger, which required Mordecai's death immediately ( O that I had of his flesh! 31 ), and his malice, which had determined to wait for the general massacre! Thus thorns and snares are in the way of the froward.

A commentator

Matthew Henry

1662–1714

Commentary on the Whole Bible (1710)

proposed

So the king and Haman came to the banquet that Esther had prepared. 6 And the king said unto Esther at the banquet of wine, What is thy petition? and it shall be granted thee: and what is thy request? even to the half of the kingdom it shall be performed. 7 Then answered Esther, and said, My petition and my request is;

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A commentator

Matthew Henry

1662–1714

Commentary on the Whole Bible (1710)

proposed

He took notice of his own riches and honours, the numerousness of his family, and the high posts to which he was advanced, that he was the darling of the prince and the idol of the court; and yet all this avails him nothing as long as Mordecai is unhanged.

The Nineteenth Century1 voice

Zeresh - This name is probably connected with the Zend zara, “gold.” Compare the Greek “Chrysis.”

The words behind it

12 Hebrew words

Every Hebrew word of this verse in the order it stands, with what it means and the door to its own study. The last column counts the times a word stands in the whole Bible: the rarer the word, the more the places it appears belong together.

  • וַיִּתְאַפַּ֣קand he restrained himself

    vaiyitapakH662

  • הָמָ֔ןHaman

    hamanH200154 times

  • וַיָּב֖וֹאand he went

    vaiyavo'H9352568 times

  • אֶל־to

    ʾel-H4135510 times

  • בֵּית֑וֹhouse his

    beitoH10042046 times

  • וַיִּשְׁלַ֛חand he sent

    vaiyishlachH7971845 times

  • וַיָּבֵ֥אand he gathered

    vaiyave'H9352568 times

  • אֶת־<obj.>

    ʾet-H85310935 times

  • אֹהֲבָ֖יוfriends his

    ʾohavavH157211 times

  • וְאֶת־and <obj.>

    veetH85310935 times

  • זֶ֥רֶשׁZeresh

    zereshH22384 times

  • אִשְׁתּֽוֹ׃wife his

    ʾishtoH802781 times

A shaded row is a word that stands 400 times or fewer in the Bible.

The walk

8 stops

Each card is a verse this one points to, and under it the verses that one points to in turn. Where several paths arrive at the same place, that place is listed first: the text keeps returning to it.

  • Through

    Ecclesiastes 7:9

    Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit, for anger settles in the lap of a fool.

    it leads to

    • James 1:19

      My beloved brothers, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger,

    • Proverbs 14:17

      A quick-tempered man acts foolishly, and a devious man is hated.

    • Proverbs 16:32

      He who is slow to anger is better than a warrior, and he who controls his temper is greater than one who captures a city.

    • Ephesians 4:26–27

      “Be angry, yet do not sin.” Do not let the sun set upon your anger,

    • Proverbs 26:23–26

      Like glaze covering an earthen vessel are burning lips and a wicked heart.

  • Through

    Esther 6:13

    Haman told his wife Zeresh and all his friends everything that had happened. His advisers and his wife Zeresh said to him, “Since Mordecai, before whom your downfall has begun, is Jewish, you will…

    it leads to

    • Proverbs 28:18

      He who walks with integrity will be kept safe, but whoever is perverse in his ways will suddenly fall.

    • Hosea 14:9

      Whoever is wise, let him understand these things; whoever is discerning, let him know them. For the ways of the LORD are right, and the righteous walk in them but the rebellious stumble in…

    • Genesis 40:19

      Within three days Pharaoh will lift off your head and hang you on a tree. Then the birds will eat the flesh of your body.”

Where this verse is studied

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About Esther

Esther Before the King — Gustave Doré, Doré's English Bible (1866), public domain
Esther Before the King — Gustave Doré, Doré's English Bible (1866), public domain

This page draws on Adam Clarke, Commentary on the Bible; Albert Barnes, Notes, Explanatory and Practical, on the Old and New Testaments (1832-1869); John Gill, Exposition of the Old Testament (1748-1763); John Wesley, Explanatory Notes upon the Old Testament and Matthew Henry, Commentary on the Whole Bible.