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1 Timothy 3:12

in 1 Timothy 3

A deacon must be the husband of but one wife, a good manager of his children and of his own household.

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The same verse in ASV and KJV

ASV

Let deacons be husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.

KJV

Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.

This verse in 1 Timothy 3

Commentary

9 notes on this verse

A commentator

Jamieson, Fausset & Brown

1802–1910

Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible (1871)

husbands of one wife--(See on 1Ti 3:2). ruling their children--There is no article in the Greek, "ruling children"; implying that he regarded the having children to rule as a qualification (1Ti 3:4;

Hand restore 2026-08-25 under the only-carrier rule: the verse was left silent and this row carries the no-article point on ruling children as a qualification.

This site's exposition

the husbands of one wife

on 1 Timothy 3:12-13

The deacon's own household test repeats the overseer's, let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well, the same domestic proof required at both offices. Verse 13 promises the deacon who serves well two rewards, a good degree, likely standing and trust within the congregation, and great boldness in the faith which is in Christ Jesus, confidence in prayer and testimony that faithful service tends to build. The office was never a stepping stone in Paul's own language, but service itself is shown to carry its own advance.

The record, by era

The Church Fathers2 voices

A commentator

Oecumenius

COMMENTARY ON 1 TIMOTHY · Written before 550.

proposed

Let deacons be the husbands of one wife, managing their children and their own households well. For those who serve well gain for themselves a good standing and great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus. husbands of one wife. You see how …

A commentator

John Chrysostom

Homily on 1 Timothy 11 · Written in the 5th century.

proposed

"Let the Deacons be husbands of one wife." This must be understood therefore to relate to Deaconesses. For that order is necessary and useful and honorable in the Church. Observe how he requires the same virtue from the Deacons, as from the Bishops, for though they were not of equal rank, they must equally be blameless; equally pure. "Ruling their children and their own houses well." Everywhere they are required to rule their children well, that others may not be scandalized by their misconduct.

The Medieval Church2 voices

A commentator

Theophylact of Ohrid

Commentary on 1 Timothy · Written before 1107.

proposed

Do you see that the apostle requires from deacons the very same virtue that he required from bishops? For they too must equally be pure and blameless. He speaks everywhere about the management of children, so that others may not have occasion for scandal. …

A commentator

Thomas Aquinas

Commentary on 1 Timothy · Written before 1274.

proposed

Above, the Apostle showed what should be the character of deacons and their wives; here he shows how deacons should behave toward their wives and children and family: first, he gives the advice; second, the reason, at for they who have ministered well. He says, …

The Puritans and the Awakening1 voice

Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife,.... See Gill on 1Ti 3:2. ruling their children and their own houses well. These qualifications are the same with those of the bishop or elder; See Gill on 1Ti 3:4.
2 more voices on this verse

The Nineteenth Century2 voices

A commentator

Adam Clarke

1762–1832

Commentary on the Bible · Written before 1832.

proposed

Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife - This is the same that is required of the bishops. See on 1Ti 3:2 (note) 1Ti 3:4 (note), and 1Ti 3:5 (note).
Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife - notes, 1Ti 3:2. Ruling their children and their own houses well - notes, 1Ti 3:4-5.

The words behind it

12 Greek words

Every Greek word of this verse in the order it stands, with what it means and the door to its own study. The last column counts the times a word stands in the whole Bible: the rarer the word, the more the places it appears belong together.

  • διάκονοιDeacons

    diakonoiG124929 times

  • ἔστωσανshould be

    estosanG15102333 times

  • μιᾶςof one

    miasG1520343 times

  • γυναικὸςwife

    gunaikosG1135211 times

  • ἄνδρες,husbands,

    andresG435216 times

  • τέκνων[their] children

    teknonG504399 times

  • καλῶςwell

    kalosG257335 times

  • προϊστάμενοιmanaging

    proistamenoiG42918 times

  • καὶand

    kaiG25329120 times

  • τῶν<the>

    tonG358819766 times

  • ἰδίων[their] own

    idionG2398114 times

  • οἴκων.households.

    oikonG3624112 times

A shaded row is a word that stands 400 times or fewer in the Bible.

The walk

8 stops

Each card is a verse this one points to, and under it the verses that one points to in turn. Where several paths arrive at the same place, that place is listed first: the text keeps returning to it.

  • Through

    Philippians 1:1

    Paul and Timothy, servants of Christ Jesus, To all the saints in Christ Jesus at Philippi, together with the overseers and deacons:

    it leads to

    • 2 Corinthians 1:1

      Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, and Timothy our brother, To the church of God in Corinth, together with all the saints throughout Achaia:

    • Acts 16:12–15

      From there we went to the Roman colony of Philippi, the leading city of that district of Macedonia. And we stayed there several days.

    • Romans 1:1

      Paul, a servant of Christ Jesus, called to be an apostle, and set apart for the gospel of God—

    • Colossians 1:1–2

      Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, and Timothy our brother,

  • Through

    1 Timothy 3:2

    An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,

    it leads to

    • Titus 1:6–9

      An elder must be blameless, the husband of but one wife, having children who are believers and who are not open to accusation of indiscretion or insubordination.

    • 2 Timothy 2:24

      And a servant of the Lord must not be quarrelsome, but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, and forbearing.

    • Romans 12:13

      Share with the saints who are in need. Practice hospitality.

  • Through

    1 Timothy 3:8

    Deacons likewise must be dignified, not double-tongued or given to much wine or greedy for money.

    it leads to

    • Philippians 1:1

      Paul and Timothy, servants of Christ Jesus, To all the saints in Christ Jesus at Philippi, together with the overseers and deacons:

Where this verse is studied

About 1 Timothy

Preaching in the Wilderness, Gustave Doré, 1866. Public domain.
Preaching in the Wilderness, Gustave Doré, 1866. Public domain.
This page draws on 10 works. Open the list of works

This page draws on Adam Clarke, Commentary on the Bible; Albert Barnes, Notes, Explanatory and Practical, on the Old and New Testaments (1832-1869); Jamieson, Fausset & Brown, Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible; John Chrysostom, Homily on 1 Timothy 11; John Gill, Exposition of the New Testament; John Gill, Exposition of the New Testament (1746-1748); John Wesley, Explanatory Notes upon the New Testament; Oecumenius, COMMENTARY ON 1 TIMOTHY; Theophylact of Ohrid, Commentary on 1 Timothy and Thomas Aquinas, Commentary on 1 Timothy.