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Proverbs

Summary

Chapter summary

The first extended warning against adultery. The strange woman's lips drop honey, 'but her latter end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword; her feet go down to death.' Remove thy way far from her, lest thou give thy years unto the cruel and mourn at the last when flesh and body are consumed. The remedy is covenant delight: 'Drink waters out of thine own cistern… rejoice in the wife of thy youth.' For the ways of man are before the eyes of Jehovah.

Context

Poetry · Solomon, Agur, LemuelProverbs overview

  • A. 1–14 Honeyed Lips, and an End Bitter as Wormwood
  • B. 15–23 Drink Waters Out of Thine Own Cistern

The outline

  1. A.Honeyed Lips, and an End Bitter as Wormwoodvv. 1 to 14

    Read vv. 1 to 14
  2. B.Drink Waters Out of Thine Own Cisternvv. 15 to 23

    Read vv. 15 to 23

The world behind this chapter

Proverbs 5
When
The height of Solomon's reign · c. 970–931 BC
Where
A town where houses share walls and a household's water comes from its own cistern
Who first heard it
Young married men, and men about to be married

The history

The chapter's central picture is water rights. Judah gets no rain from May to September, so a household cut a cistern in the rock under or beside the house, plastered it, and fed it from the roof through a channel. That water was private property, guarded, and rationed. "Drink waters out of thine own cistern" is not poetry to people who lived that way; it is the difference between having water and begging for it.

"Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad" turns the picture around — water running out into the street is water wasted, spilled where anyone can take it. In a dry country that image carried real disgust.

The consequences named are legal and financial, not only moral. An adulterer could lose his "honour" and his "years unto the cruel" — the wronged husband and his clan had standing to pursue him, the Law made adultery a capital matter, and a settlement could strip a man's estate and hand "thy labours" to a stranger's house.

"Her lips drop as an honeycomb" and "her end is bitter as wormwood" pair the sweetest and the bitterest things in the local pantry. Wild honey was the region's only concentrated sweetener; wormwood was a scrubby desert plant so bitter it became the standard word for what poisons a good thing.

What it meant to them

Hearers in a small town understood the arithmetic instantly: everyone would know, and the cost would be paid in front of the whole assembly.

But the chapter's strongest note is not the threat. It is the command to rejoice in the wife of your youth — a settled, warm, lifelong delight held up as the actually better deal, in a culture where a man with means could easily have arranged otherwise.

Sources cited

  • Roland de Vaux, Ancient Israel: Its Life and Institutions
  • John H. Walton, Victor H. Matthews, Mark W. Chavalas, The IVP Bible Background Commentary: Old Testament

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The text of this chapter

This page carries no textual note on Proverbs 5. Where this site has examined a place the manuscripts differ, the examination is in the manuscripts room. Every place this site examines →

This page draws on Jamieson, Fausset & Brown, Commentary Critical and Explanatory; John Wesley, Notes on the Old Testament and Matthew Henry, Complete Commentary.